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31 M Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Aug 19
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Easy-going, confident, and adventurous. I'm a west coast transplant, but very much at home in the DC area. By day, I work as a paralegal in appellate litigation, by night...I might be Batman (hopefully not Aquaman). You'd think the whole lawyerly thing would make me an overly-anal douche, but I'm laid-back and not easily phased. I'm respectful, assertive and aggressive when the time's right. Basically, I'm a balanced guy with a side of ninja ass-kicking. And I'm kind of a goof.

DC's been a good fit for me, and I dig how walkable the city is. I live near a couple of dog parks, which makes my walk to work pretty cool. I can be caught around town lounging at a bars with buds, hitting up a poker/trivia night, getting into a local event, or nerding it up at home.

If my pics and the sidebar details don't tell the story: I'm 6'0", 180 lbs. with a 31" waist and a strong, fit build. I have brown hair and green-grey eyes. I'm into martial arts, and I try to work out a little every day if I can. I definitely keep healthy (without being an obsessive dick about it).

As to what I'm attracted to, I'm generally down for a guy in his late twenties or thirties who's healthy and takes care of himself physically. Personality-wise, I get along with pretty much anyone, but I dig guys who are comfortable in their own skin. I'm a decisive guy, and dudes who similarly know what they want are hot. Yo, I'm easy to talk to. Just give it a go, dude.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I'm a paralegal for the appellate practice at a law firm. My boss is the kind that meanders into the office at 10:30 in jeans...I WANT THAT. Law school is a definite possibility down the road, but I'm definitely happy where I'm at.
I’m really good at
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Martial arts. The dojo's a good way to keep physically active without ever getting bored. My surprisingly vicious roundhouse has won me more than a few sparring matches. I've worked in the past on getting self-defense courses for gay men set up when gay bashings were on the upswing in the DC area.

Also have a relatively decent singing voice. Sung a lot in high school and college. I can be goaded into some karaoke nowadays.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That this friendly, random dude is talking to them. haha. Comments usually follow about my piercing green-grey eyes. And that I'm a damn good kisser.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows: Top Chef, Morning Joe, True Blood (Ryan Kwanten's ass is reason enough to watch), The Universe, Rachel Maddow, and any cartoon involving superheroes and/or ninjas (my inner child is a nerd, and suspiciously gay).

Books: 1984, Amusing Ourselves to Death, Candide, Joy Luck Club, Life of Pi, Bakuman.

Food: Watermelon. And more watermelon.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing typical with Friday nights...always making new plans. I'm up for anything from movies, to playing pool, to dancing, or putting together a midnight scaveger hunt or pillow fight. Or sleeping on and snuggling with said pillows.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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