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31 F Walnut Creek, CA

My Details

Last Online
Dec 29, 2013
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Update: I've never really been a relationship kinda girl. it takes a lot for me to get close to soneone and open up to them or trust them. It's something I've been working on lately. I've been practicing on my friends :) and now I'm closer then ever to them. Recently I've decided that I may be able to take baby steps into that in my romantic life. So hence the update... Not sure where this will go but I'm gonna see what happens. I may be having a 30-life crisis though 😊

Shoot, I'd say I'm part hippy part nerd part indie rock fanatic. I'm sarcastic yet wanna save the world. I'm awkward yet socially adept. I bike a lot, recycle, bring my own bags to the store, am a vegetarian yet I'm attached at the hip to my IPhone.
I'm a huge Giants fan, love to go see games. I love listening to NPR and going to see live music. I love going for bike rides around town or on the trails. A bike ride on a summer night may be one of my favorite things on the planet. I love finding new, beautiful places to hike. The Oakland Redwood forest may be one of my favorite places in the bay! I'm always looking for great new places to eat or have a beer.
I love being really silly and laughing. A great sense of Humor and the ability to laugh at one self are very important to me. I feel very weird describing myself in a paragraph like this... Side note, the questions on here are super awkward and I feel like they make me seem way more pretentious then I am. I swear I'm only slightly pretentious ;)
Update: while I very much enjoy sex I am not on here to have sex with a bunch of guys. If all you're interested in is sleeping with me please look elsewhere. I'm looking to meet someone and connect first.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working for the man as a manager at a coffee shop (no not that one). I love the training and developing aspect but hate the corporate bullshit. The company I work for is one of the better ones and I try to do what I can to make it even better. right now im reevaluating my life a bit, really want to move to New York. Truthfully I wish I could buy a sailboat or rv and just take off, explore, say fuck society. Unfortunately that's not too realistic right now :(.
Striving to be socially and environmentally conscious. Going to see live music whenever I can. Seriously though I love live music and spend most of my extra money going to shows. Watching the Giants on tv or at a game (i love the Giants, i spend way too much time watching games. Shhh dont tell anyone...)
Being super pissed that Lena Dinham wrote my show. I seriously love Girls but Lena Dunham and I are weird life twins and she beat me to the punch :(
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whistling, I'm a super amazing whistler. Talking to all different types of people. Remembering the words to a song I just heard. Making yummy vegetarian food!
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a really positive person. That I like to sing, sometimes in weird places. That I love to laugh. That I can be weirdly neurotic sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Count of Monte Cristo, Wuthering Heights, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Inheritence Trilogy, The Brief and Wonderous Life of Oscar Wao, Running With Scissors, Crime and Punishment.

Music: Mumford and Sons, Radiohead, Blind Pilot, Dr. Dog, Delta Spirit, Arcade Fire, Rogue Wave, The Beatles, Florence and the Machine, Edward Sharpe, Adele, Amy Winehouse, Nuetral Milk Hotel, Bright Eyes, Broken Social Scene, Fiest. This list is mostly just my current and all time faves, there are many more...

Shows: Doctor Who, Firefly, Buffy the Vampire Slayer (ok, anything Joss Whedon really, hes a crazy genius) Six Feet Under, Bones, Friends, Sherlock, Always Sunny in Philidephia, An Idiot Abroad, Girls, The Walking Dead my guilty pleasure shows are The Vampire Diaries and the Kardashians. I watch the Daily Show pretty much daily, if I could marry any celebrity it'd be Jon Stewart... Love him. I'm totally obsessed with Game of thrones right now!

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Serenity, I heart Huckabees, Saved, Mean Girls, Resevoir Dogs, Goodfellas, Pans Labyrinth, Amelie (never fails to make me smile), Boogie Nights, Evil Dead, Slither, re-animator, American Beauty, Blue Valentine.

Food: I'm pretty adventurous, love Thai food, Ethiopian food, mediteranean food and I always like to try new places. I try to eat organic and local wherever possible. Luckily California is a great place for that. I'm vegetarian but not the preachy annoying kind, I don't care what you eat I just don't eat meat for a variety of reasons, if you're interested in what they are just ask me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My bike, Pandora, my kitty Mal, ellipses, avacados, Kombucha, Giants games, Joss whedon shows/movies. Ok I cheated and added 2 more, It's only okcupid...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Debating whether i should run off and join a commune. How crazy this world is now. How I can work from within the system to change it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's different pretty much every Friday night. But I'm probably either seeing a band, hanging at a dive bar, watching Netflix or getting dessert and coffee with the girls. If its during baseball season probably watching a Giants game. I just got a Kindle and lately most nights consist of me reading my Kindle with a bottle of wine :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think beards are sexy. I'm also partial to tattoos, glasses and Betty Paige bangs. I watch Pretty Little Liars and not in an ironic way.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, maybe a little nerdy, like to have fun and youre responsible but aren't too serious about life. If you think "hella" is annoying and would burn any affliction or Ed hardy shirt that comes your way I'd like that too. If you're a mans man and spend less time getting ready then me. I also clearly like beards :) or if you're a girl whose down to earth. I'm new to the whole dating women thing but i just recently discovered im attracted to girls so that's new and exciting. I like tatoos and a trucker mouth while still being feminine :) i like interesting sometimes unusual people. And finally If you arent looking for a relationship with pressure and expectations right off the bat, but want something a little more then casual.

Also if you're looking for a one night stand please don't bother, I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for but I know it's not that.