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45 O'Fallon, IL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 24
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Has kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's see... what to write that will perk your interest and make me sound interesting, attractive, and normal without sounding arrogant and/or weird? I consider myself a responsible, old-fashioned guy, thoughtful and considerate, with slightly sarcastic sense of humor. I may be the least nerdy nerd you could meet, as I enjoy HDTV and Discovery Channel over reality TV, reading NatGeo over a novel (although all this Shades of Gray talk makes me want to read the flippin' thing!). Generally I don't read as much as I'd like to, and don't watch much TV at all.

Although I do love a lazy Sunday watching football, then running patterns with my boys in the backyard, a workout at the gym, or an afternoon by the local pool (missing that lately!). Running/biking on nice days and watching a good movie on the couch is equally fun for me. I can talk about most anything passably, but you won't find me winning any prizes for smooth talking. I'm no good at putting on a front, what you get is what you get. I enjoy trying new restaurants, all kinds of music (and many times singing when I think no one can hear), and traveling -- haven't done much of that lately :-(

I'd be interested in you if you share some of the same interests, are quick with a smile, and enjoy going out and trying new things (and familiar things, too!). Add smart, confident, and at least semi-sane, and you're sure to win my attention. An occasional running partner or workout buddy would be nice, but not required.

I'm not interested in dating just for something to do on a Friday night, although occasionally that's a good thing. Looking for a connection, a "spark" (cheese alert!), someone who makes me start thinking about when I'm gonna see this girl again, before the evening is half over.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Education, good job I enjoy, wonderful kids, house, blah, blah, all that stuff I've taken care of. Trying to find someone special to share it with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing in the car. Spiking a volleyball. Helping with homework. Noticing the subtle things. My job. Writing. Cleaning (yeah, it's a curse). Staying fit. Fixing problems. Setting goals and achieving them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You'd have to ask those people. Eyes? Height? Smile? Or could be they find me horribly difficult to look at. At least they don't mention that out loud.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, friendships, family, home, food, and outdoors.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
zombies. Sometimes aliens, but mostly zombies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either at home with kiddos, or out with friends, or hanging with myself (good company!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
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You think we would be a good match. And you are smokin' hot and/or independantly wealthy. /jk! Really, if you are happy with your life, but missing that last piece, are confident, interesting, fun, and still believe that there are good guys out there.