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34 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:10pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I've been described as easygoing, active, curious, passionate, honest (sometimes directly so), and adventurous.

I spend most of my free time practicing yoga, dancing (Cuban Salsa and Latin), practicing Reiki/aromatherapy/restorative yoga, studying Buddhism, and alternative health and healing, and being outside in nature. I tend to be very busy doing things that I love, and am working on balancing that with down time.

I am definitely a feminist, and race and class conscious. I'm passionate about education and social justice.

Travel and adventures of any kind keep life flowing. I've lived abroad (Colombia and Mexico) and would love to do that again.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying the summertime energy, going on hikes and weekend trips

My 9-5 is as a therapist/social worker at a public school in East Oakland. I plan to move into somatic and expressive arts therapy eventually.

Noticing the moon and stars on clear nights
I’m really good at
Organizing and creating spaces
Active listening
Pushing outside my comfort zone
Finding beauty and humanity in difficult situations
Being silly

I'm getting better at:

Teaching yoga
Making space for meditation and mindfulness in my daily life
Sewing and knitting- love DIY creative projects (wish I had more time for this)
The first things people usually notice about me
A good friend said it was my long legs, and that I was trusting because I lent her money in the first hour we met.

Others have mentioned my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recent spotify playlists: Otis Redding, Janelle Monae, Timba, Calle 13, some Kirtan, and other stuff.

Movies- anything Woody Allen or Pedro Almodovar, When Harry met Sally, Harold and Maude, The NeverEnding Story

NPR, This American Life, RadioLab

I don't own a TV, but I'm not averse to vegging out in front of a good series. The Wire, 30 Rock.

Books are very important. Used to read The New Yorker regularly, and need to get back into it.

Sufi poetry : )

I try to eat healthy, unprocessed food- more greens, less sugar.
The six things I could never do without
"The cure for anything is salt water- sweat, tears or the sea."
-Isak Dineson
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Traveling again

Shifting my career to be more nourishing and in alignment with my passions
On a typical Friday night I am
dancing Cuban Salsa, curling up with a book, or at a dinner party at a friend's house

or maybe on an epic date with you...that involves a sunset hike...yea, let's do that!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think we would get along

You are open to the possibility of a long-term relationship if we vibe

You want to get off of this site

You laugh often

You choose to spend money on experiences over material objects

You're open-minded

You are willing to make the first move. I really like it when a guy takes initiative.