Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a free spirited and down-to-earth woman with a laid-back and
loving relationship to life. My work can be intense, so I really
enjoy having fun, going on adventures, being creative, laughing and
enjoying the lighter side of life with loved ones.
I am attracted to men who think outside of the box, laugh often,
and are self-aware. It would be amazing to find a man who has these
qualities, and is also a grown-up, a good communicator, reliable
and ready to be in a committed partnership.
A guy friend wrote this about me:
"If there's one word to define Bethany, that'd be connected.
Connected intrinsically with herself, her feelings, emotions and
extrinsically with her friends, her family and her community. Her
love for travel has taken her to places people only dream of going,
and her love of learning has enabled her to embrace yoga,
meditation and dance as her passion. She is the girl you'd go
swimming in the bay with, bring her to have lunch with your family,
and rock out at some epic house party - all in the same day.
Connected, communicative, trustworthy and so much fun to be around
- that's Bethany."
Some things I'm into:
meditation and spiritual development / dance, esp. Cuban Salsa /
yoga / books / nature / hiking / camping / riding bikes / social
justice / health and healing modalities / somatic therapy /
energetic work / tantric yoga / education / photography / art /
travel / anything involving water / DIY projects / free spirits /
hugs / good kissers
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a psychotherapist at an alternative high school, and
study somatic, mindfulness-based therapy (Hakomi method).
I occasionally teach beginners yoga, and am passionate about social
I was voted Most Prolific Reader in the 4th grade, and it's still
one of my favorite activities.
I'm a Cuban Salsa dancer, and also enjoy Afro-Brazilian and other
kinds of dance too.
I tend to go to farmers markets on the weekends and like to ride my
bike around town.
I recently decided to make 1000 paper cranes, so far I've finished
about 100. Want to help me?
Travel has been a big part of my life, and I'm always looking
forward to the next adventure. One time I started a cookie business
when I lived in Colombia. My friend and I made the PERFECT,
taste-tested chocolate chip cookies and sold them in parks where
people hung out drinking and smoking weed. We called it Las
Munchies (with a Spanish pronunciation), introducing a new word to
the Spanglish lexicon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the big picture
Trying new things
Finding beauty and humor in difficult situations
Cuban Salsa dancing
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes, smile, dimple, my friendly and curious personality
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Otis Redding, Stevie Wonder, Janelle Monae, Timba, Calle 13,
some Kirtan, Arcade Fire, Silvio Rodriguez, D'Angelo
Movies: Anything by Pedro Almodovar, When Harry met Sally, Harold
and Maude, The NeverEnding Story, Funny Face, Inside Out was
amazing. Also, I just saw CitizenFour, the Edward Snowden
documentary, and it was really great.
Podcasts/radio: This American Life, The Moth, Hard Knock Radio,
I don't own a TV, but there is Netflix. Greys Anatomy is my guilty
pleasure- please don't judge : )
Books/Authors: Junot Diaz, Toni Morrison, Jumpha Lahira, engaging
non-fiction, Dave Eggers, anything by Atul Gawande
I need to bring some New Yorker back into my life.
Sunday brunch with the NYTimes.
Gardening is fun and calming; I would like to move back to a place
that has one again.
I generally avoid crowded bars and clubs, unless it is for dancing.
A lounge or cafe is more my style. Or somewhere outside.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"The cure for anything is salt water- sweat, tears or the
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not it's worth it to stay out late salsa dancing. It
usually is : )
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe on an epic date with you, that involves a sunset hike
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're kind, smart, funny, reflective and reliable. We have
something in common, or you think we share a similar perspective on
how to live life. You're open to the possibility of having
If it takes me a minute to warm up on the first date, ask some good
questions. It really helps. Actually, ask good questions all the
time. Women like that : )
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