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35 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:24am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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An active woman who enjoys reading, arts, yoga, dance, nature, health, and creativity. I tend to be adventurous, independent, and passionate about the things I care about.

I'm looking for a real relationship with someone who pursues his passions in life, and wants a committed relationship.

Ten years in the Bay Area have revealed my granola tendencies, but I'm still a down to earth New Englander at heart. I appreciate grounded, salt of the earth folks more than anything.

I work as a psychotherapist at a high school, and also teach yoga to teens there. I spend my free time Cuban Salsa dancing, reading, hiking in the hills, escaping to hot springs, and traveling. I've traveled and lived in South America, and plan to continue seeing the world.

I try to live my life by Buddhist principles; meditation helps a lot.

My background is in Social work and I lean far left politically. I've recently been inspired by the Black Lives Matter movement, and am feeling hopeful about positive, grassroots change.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying the rare lazy morning at home. Taking dance and yoga classes. Studying somatic therapy. Cooking and preparing meals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the big picture
Being a good friend
Pushing outside my comfort zone
Finding beauty/humanity/humor in difficult situations
Being silly
Cuban Salsa dancing
Communicating directly
My style
Being present
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been described as passionate and adventurous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Otis Redding, Stevie Wonder, Janelle Monae, Timba, Calle 13, some Kirtan, Arcade Fire, Silvio Rodriguez, the new D'Angelo album is on repeat, lately I've been into seeing local Latin Cumbia fusion bands. I like most types of music.

Anything by Pedro Almodovar, When Harry met Sally, Harold and Maude, The NeverEnding Story, Funny Face

NPR, This American Life, other random podcasts. Serial!

I don't own a TV, but there is Netflix. The Wire and 30 Rock were really great. Greys Anatomy is my guilty pleasure- please don't judge : )

Junot Diaz, Toni Morrison, Jumpha Lahira, engaging non-fiction, Dave Eggers, and more

The New Yorker

Sufi poetry

Gardening is fun. I don't have hard and fast rules about eating, but I try to eat organic and stay away from sugar and processed food.

I generally avoid crowded bars and clubs, unless it is for dancing. A lounge or cafe is more my style. Or somewhere outside where the air is clean.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"The cure for anything is salt water- sweat, tears or the sea."
-Isak Dineson
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ummmm...meeting someone awesome. Planning my meals. Where I will travel when I have time off this summer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing Cuban Salsa or at a dinner party with friends

Maybe on an epic date with you that involves a sunset hike (hopefully)...
You should message me if
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You're kind, smart, reflective, active, reliable and fun. You're a good conversationalist. You want to explore the world together.

You want to stop the merry-go-round of online dating and go deeper with someone. I'm looking for something solid. Holla if you feel the same, and you think we might be good for each other.