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56 F Flagstaff, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 21–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jul 8
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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"I am not bad, I am just drawn that way" in the words of Jessica
Rabbit. I was singing in the picture when it was taken, a little
floor show from my alter ego. I love to dance and have an all
around great time. Pretty much can adapt to any social situation
from a picnic in the woods or at the beach, to an elite club or
restaurant (I won't use the wrong fork or propel my escargot across
the room). I have lived a very diverse life experiencing several
professions and learning many skills. I am the oldest daughter of
a man who had no sons, so we learned all the traditional male
skills at an early age. We either grew it, shot it, or caught it
and I thought we were poor eating fresh salmon or shrimp we had just caught. I guess that makes me sort of a "Jill of all trades", but I
believe it enhances my ability to work in many situations and adapt
to our changing society.
What I’m doing with my life
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Since the last of my children are heading out on their own in a few short months, I am reevaluating what I want to do with all the free time on my hands. I have been at the peak of my career and now just want to relax and enjoy life to the fullest. I have started writing a novel and a how to book. If I had a yard I would love to get back into gardening. Mostly, I have learned that it is not the things we acquire, or the places we go, rather the people in our lives which matter-so with that said, I am enjoying those who are in my life with no regrets.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have been dancing since I was 4, and love to sing although I don't have any regular gig. I am a great organizer but love to be spontaneous when the whim to do something hits me. I have been told I take on too much, but when the energy is their I am a dynamo at getting a project completed and keeping it organized. I also seem to have a gift for understanding and reading others. I am able to speak well in front of large or small groups, and others say they are very comfortable talking with me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The blue eyes, strong legs and my ability to make people comfortable talking with me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: classic Rock for sure, but some of the new stuff in the top 40 is ok.
Movies: any crime drama or scifi (I know- go figure)
Books-lately only text books, but I love a good crime drama or Malcolm Gladwell's The tipping point and outliers,
TV: so you think you can dance (of course), Grey's anatomy, Criminal minds, 24 (when it was on, seen them all),
Food: Seafood (raised in Seattle so of course), a good Steak, fresh vegetables.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seeing the mountains
Smellng the salt water
My kids
Good friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I have done in my life, how my choices affected my kids and others in my life. Trying not to blame myself for mistakes and looking at what good came from some bad situations
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out dancing and playing somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmm, you will have to ask me this one in person.
You should message me if
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You are not intimidated by a strong, intelligent, independent and beautiful woman!