Baggage or luggage? We all have some. I choose to see my life's obstacles and pains as growth periods.
I do not want a "friends-with-benefits" relationship. I have in the past and found that my heart hurts too deeply. I am incredibly TOO loyal and become TOO connected. I simply cannot do it again.
I love to explore, to experience new things and new places. I am not exercise prone but do like to be active. I love to ride motorcycles as a passenger and have my endorsement--but still just learning. Yet, I am not a skulls and cross-bone kinda gal.
Integrity and honesty are attributes I find the absolute MOST sexy in a man.
Life can be tough. Hearts have been broken and fears exists for most. I am just trying to move forward in life the best I know how while choosing to learn, to grow, to be a spirit living the human existence---before I no longer live or end up too frail and/or sick to care.
From experience---being with the wrong person is worse than being alone. Therefor, although I would certainly love to be in-love, to find that elusive "right" one for me, living in a fantasy sucks and so, I would rather just meet some new friends. Who knows what will happen?
As for my personal attributes, I am quite a mix: hard/soft, capable/vulnerable, playful/serious, independent/dependent...but I am ALWAYS real.