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37 Honolulu, HI Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 13
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I live for my weekends! Movie nights in and taking scenic drives are awesome. I enjoy stimulating conversation and thinking. I try to make my time count for something at least
1-2x a month: beach trash pickup, learning a new skill, trying something new and challenging; sometimes I make weird art projects and get messy in my living room, sometimes I make quiche.
What I’m doing with my life
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When I graduated from high school, I packed my stuff, went off to college, and I never moved back. I've learned so much about myself since I started exploring this big planet! MN will always be "home," but I've set roots in Hawaii - I've been here since 2009 and have a good job. I'm attracted to the transience of the people who wander through here as much as I'm attracted to all the adventures waiting to happen. I've collected pieces of myself throughout the world and know that there are more pieces still yet to be discovered.

I'm willing to stay the course until I find the right partner in life. I don't want to do it alone. I'm not into rushing things, just also not avoiding the truth. I follow a zen mentality of no expectations = no disappointment and believe that most dating situations have potential for greatness or failure.

My humor is wry. My friends are amused and plentiful. Family is important to me, we just don't live close.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kickstarting my moped, and making up Bollywood dance routines. Scaring off men looking for a hookup
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't wear a ton of makeup like a lot of girls 24-7. I don't need all that. You'll appreciate it later when you aren't shocked by a great "reveal!" What you get is what you see...but I clean up great and dabble in the political spectrum, so I do have to get fancy sometimes.

I am really into helping other people. I dedicate a ton of time and energy to my sport. When I'm really passionate about something/someone, I commit, and I'm loyal. Loyalty = trust + respect + honesty; I deserve the same.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like Wes Anderson films, classics and documentaries. I like books. I read them when I'm not stressed out and distracted by a bazillion life things.

Robert Plant & Alison Krauss, Lykke Li, Bastille, Coldplay, Middle Eastern ambient, Lana Del Rey. Listen to most of the Beatles albums and some Rolling Stones. My music collection is vast and a little weird, but not too much weird.

I love food! I love dining experiences. Alan Wongs is a very special place. So is Leonard's bakery. I love Chinese, Thai, curries, Indian, Meditteranean, Morrocan, and condiments. Condiments are great.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
All basic needs. I really like my creature comforts, too, and if people get elitist and don't admit that, they're full of shit. Hot showers are fucking great. Also, always gotta have a goal.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is marriage a broken system? Is monogamy? Altruism and honesty seem rare now, and that makes me sad. Will I ever pay off my student loans? Should I say that out loud, or not? Why aren't there more bike paths in this super warm, super sunny city? Should I quit my job and move to New Mexico? Is this the "good" life, or can I do better?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know if I have a "typical" Friday night. Healthy mix of going out and staying in. Pretty much over the hangover thing though and the last time I 420'd was 1998.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am discovering what it means to have "self-interest." Previously, I was working on being "selfless," but that doesn't help to get your needs met. Life is complex.
You should message me if
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You're over 30 years old. 27, maybe? If you've really lived some life.... 22 or 50? Highly unlikely. I'm sure you have standards, too (like must have teeth, or has a job) - it's not really the number so much as the generational gap or maturity level.

You do your own dishes.

You are looking to meet someone, not just a quick lay.

You're straight forward but have tact when appropriate.

You know what appropriate means.

You don't start a conversation with:

"Hey babe"
"What's up"
"You're hot"

I can't build on that sort of introduction. Thank you for understanding. Haha

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