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30 Halesowen, UK Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:25am
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

My name is Alec, Its Celtic for "he who will be mistakenly called Alex for the rest of his life" apparently my parents thought it sounded like a strong name.

If i had to describe myself from the outside looking in I'd say I'm a bit of a dreamer and romantic at heart. I'm not looking for any one thing in particular in a person, I think having a rigid set of standards is a recipe for disaster and frankly I want to be surprised by people in general.

I love anyone who has an encyclopedic knowledge of a subject, if a person talks about a subject with a real passion they're onto a winner with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently work as a graphic designer, its something I got interested in when I was a kid and I've been swept along with it ever since. However I've recently dabbled with the idea of doing something new but I'm not entirely sure what yet.

In my spare time I do a bit of free lance work as a blacksmith. I developed an interest in metal work while i was in university and picked up a few skills to help me along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
To quote Liam Neeson "I have a very particular set of skills"....

Ok I'm not quite that good but I've spent a few years going survival camping without a tent or much else. I've also been told I have an incredible sense of direction.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't want to bore you with a massive list but just a few things to give you an idea...

David Gemmell Drenai Saga, Forever War, Starship Troopers, Neverwhere & The Kpax Series

Whiplash, Grand Budapest Hotel, Calvery, I Heart Huckabees & The Master

Fargo, Brooklyn 99, True Detective, Game of Thrones, Parks & Recreation

Pretty much anything really but I'm more of a Radio 2 fan than Radio 1
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A Warm Bed in Winter
A Cold Shower in Summer
A Moral Conundrum to Puzzle Over
A Challenge
A Plan
A Reason to Throw the Plan Away
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The reason behind peoples actions. I appreciate you cant ever REALLY know 100% what a person is thinking but its always interesting to try and gain a bit of perspective.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like to chat? (a horribly generic answer i know) but If you don't think that the guy HAS to make the first move your more than welcome to say hi