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30 San Jose, CA Cis Woman, Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Woman

Cis Woman, Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 19
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmmm...I am an energetic, empathic sprite that loves art, nature, & learning new things.

I pride myself on being organized & having "that random thing" someone needs in the middle of nowhere, because I'm a mother#@$%ing girl scout!

I have a super keen sense of smell, disturbingly good facial recognition, and I try to function out of kindness and compassion as much as humanly possible.

I find humans (and most animals) highly fascinating, however, I have a very low tolerance for people that pollute my space with negativity or petty superficial bullshit.

I like genuine, honest people who understand the application of empathy and compassion.

I am my own primary and currently dating. Some Descriptive Identifiers: queer/pansexual, switchy, kinky, polyamorous.
*Maintaining clear, open communication with respect for boundaries is very important to me in my life and relationships. In my opinion, if one cannot commit time to clear communication with their partners, they should not call themselves poly.*

I absolutely love being silly and mocking the human race for all it's odd quirks and tragically amusing short comings. I believe in laughing at most of the things in life (eventually), because pretending I'm watching a dark comedy helps me let go & accept the things I cannot control.

Anywho...I like lots of fun things and activities. Can you dig it?
I enjoy Onsies, coffee, tea, stories, hiking, backpacking, kayaking, gardening, farming, oil painting, watching movies, cooking, eating, comics, live music, meeting new people, cocktails, costume parties, rock climbing, camping, playing with animals, bonfires on the beach, nature, traveling, people watching, sculpting, etc. etc..

Truth be told, I feel most alive & at home in my skin when out in nature, creating something with my hands, or stopping to revel in the pure joy of a shared moment with another awesome being.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What am I doing with my life?...good question. Aside from scholastic goals, I am working on understanding the world and through that, better understanding myself as a part of it. A major part of that is enjoying the journey and finding what makes me happy. It seems so simple.

I am making things & a jack-of-all-trades. Currently, creating art, theatrical scenic painting, teaching theatrical make-up, making soap, taking care of animals (In-home animal care), and picking-up random computer work to pay the bills. I have a Psych background, but am academically on pause between undergrad and grad school.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Picking up new art mediums quickly.
-Most physical activities & sports I pick up pretty naturally. (Yes, I like some sports ball, but generally I like playing rather than watching organized sports.)
-Making my friends laugh, even if they are crying.
-Cooking up a storm.
-Walking into a room full of strangers & mingling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
… the Fauxhawk or my colorful frames.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Comics: Sandman, Stardust, Mr. Punch, The Dark Tower series, Y the Last Man, TankGirl (original), The Preacher, Sin City, Kabuki, Transmetropolitan, Fables, V for Vendetta.

Books: American Gods, Good Omens, Smoke & Mirrors, World Religions, Choke, Diary, The Faith to Doubt, Naked Lunch, Wet, The Mind and The Brain, David & Leigh Eddings series, neurological psychology books, Wasted, wicked, World War Z, Zombpacolypse Survival Guide, Psychopathia Sexualis, My Stroke of Insight, Anatomy coloring workbook, Ethical Slut, Polyamory in the 21st century, Sex at Dawn, The Guide to Getting it on, etc.

Movies: Fifth Element, Tu Wong Fu, Boondock saints, Rubber, seven, snatch, Gross Point Blank, High Fidelity, Eternal Sunshine of a spotless mind, Natural Born Killers, Freeway, The Labyrinth, Mirror Mask, Ghost busters, The Dark Crystal, American Beauty, A Beautiful Mind, Big Fish, O' Brother Where Art Thou, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, The Usual Suspects, What's Eating Gilbert Grape, Thank You for Smoking, Shrink, Children of Men, Shaw shank Redemption, Across The Universe, Aliens, The Audition, Iron Man, Afro Samuri, Vampire Hunter D, Cowboy Bebop, Princess Mononoke, Sin City...the list could go on for pages really. Nothing I like better than good company, good wine, and a good movie…and perhaps a good cozy cuddle.

TV Series: Adventure time, Archer, orphan black, black mirror, BSG, True Detectives (the 1st series), Dexter, House of Cards, Scandal, Jerico, X Files, Fringe, House, Scrubs, Closer, Law & Order (SVU or Original), Breaking Bad, Malcom in the Middle, Heroes, Californication, Star Trek, Stargate, Mad Men, United States of Tara, Game of Thrones, Robot Chicken, Futurama, Bob's Burgers, Rick & Marty, etc. etc.

Music: oh my, just to list a few fav.'s: Al Green, Alice in Chains, Alicia Keys, Andrew Bird, Ani Difranco, Aphrodite, Apocalyptica, Atmosphere, Babes in Toyland, Beastie Boys, Beats antique, Beck, Bjork, Bob Marley, Bones thugs n' Harmony, Blockhead, The Breeders, Cypress Hill, Daft Punk, Dirty Vegas, Doors, Dr. Toast, Faith No More, Fantomas, Fear Factory, Fiona Apple, Flight of the Concords, Fugees, Infected Mushroom, James Brown, Jefferson Airplaine, Joss Stone, Joy Division, kasabian, King Missile, L7, Led Zep., Lonely Island, Luscious jackson, Macklemore, Marvin Gaye, love love LOVE me some Massive Attack, mc chris, Michael Jackson, Mika, Miles Davis, MIRV, NIN, Nirvana, Oghr, Offspring, Outcast, Oysterhead, Pink Floyd, Pixies, <3 <3 , Poe, Portishead, P.O.T.U.S.A, Primus, Prodigy, Radiohead, Rasputina, Run DMC, Secret Chiefs 3, sepultura, Smashing Pumpkins, Soundgarden, Spoon, STP, Toni Braxton, Tool, Violent Femmes, Whitney Houston, etc. etc.
Musically I'm all over the place & I like it that way. I've gotta say dropping a deep bass beat, rocking out to a radical banjo solo or funky horns, or being lulled by a sultry, seductive soulful voice are just some of the sweetest pleasures in life. At least to my ears.

Food: hhhmmmm...this one's easy because I love almost all food and will try anything once! I really like interesting pizzas, sushi, italian, Thai, BBQ, tri tip, hefty sandwiches, soups & bread,....I like food.

Note: I should probably attend Cheese Addicts Anonymous with Monty (Rescue Ranger Reference). I do love my fromage....mmm..soo good.

I love food and cooking it for people I love, a habit I earned from my Costa Rican side of the family.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Family & Friends
-Sex, kink, & cuddles
-Delicious Noms
-Art (& the making of it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, happiness, kink, relationships, creating art, how to be a better person, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
First Rule of Cuntmuffin Club: There are No Typical Friday Nights.
You should message me if
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-You would love to have a picnic or make food together.
-You need an adventure buddy!
-If you get excited by reading any of this.

-If you don't have any pictures posted.
-If you are only interested in propositioning me for sex.
-If you're looking for someone to cheat on your partner with. If there is one thing I hate, it's disrespectful liars & cheaters.
-If you haven't actually read my profile.
Thank you.