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bag_o_fag_o

31 / M / Bisexual / Available

Washington, District of Columbia

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Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
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New friends, Activity partners, Casual sex
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No
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Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
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Libra and it’s fun to think about
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Likes children
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Languages
English, Spanish

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I am perceptive, lively, and a little scattered.

My Self-Summary

i'm a gender-variant critter, the oldest of four kids, i keep myself very busy with work and with life, i can be very silly and i am also very sincere. i care a lot about social justice and i have a complicated food restrictions. I lived in North Carolina for 4 years, and my dear granny "Mamaw" is from Arkansas. So if yer lucky you might catch a little southern twang slip out when i tawk. Once, when I told Mamaw what karaoke is (she had never heard of it), she told me that I'm a rock star. How'd she know?
I'm happily in a relationship but open for friends or potentially casual sex.
Now in Spanish
soy una criatura genero-variante, el mayor de 4 hijos, me mantengo muy ocupado con el trabajo y la vida, puedo ser muy chistoso y tambien soy muy sincero. me importa mucho la justicia social, y tengo limites complicadas de lo que puedo comer.
Estoy en una relacion feliz pero abierto a nuevos amigos o tal vez sexo casual...

What I’m doing with my life

I just left a job I had for 7 years working with an international solidarity organization, and was in charge of coordinating grassroots fundraising programs and national finances. Now I am trying to figure out what else to do with my life. I am in a small study group/book club, taking tae kwon do classes, and doing lots of art projects. I'm doing some freelance work on an online database project and daydreaming a lot about working at the dc public library or at a bookstore.
Now in Spanish
acabo de salir de un trabajo que tenia por los ultimos 7 anos con una organizacion de solidaridad internacional, encargado de coordinar los programas de recaudar fondos de base y las finanzas nacionales de la organizacion. Ahora estoy buscando QUE hacer con mi vida! Tambien participo en un grupo pequeño de estudios, estoy tomando clases de tae kwon do, y haciendo muchos proyectos de arte. Por ahora estoy trabajando un base de datos por internet, y sonando mucho de trabajar en la biblioteca o una libreria.

I’m really good at

finding creative solutions, fixing things, salsa dancing, making jokes to ease tension, listening and responding.
Now in Spanish
encontrar soluciones creativas, arreglar cosas, bailar salsa, hacer bromas para bajar la tension, escuchar y responder.

The first things people usually notice about me

i'm pretty friendly and tend to get along with people. also my eyes look like they have sunflowers in them.
Now in Spanish
soy muy amable y me llevo bien con la mayoria de la gente. tambien, mis ojos parecen tener flores en el centro.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

favorite books: Zorro by Isabel Allende, GENDERqUEER, Assata, The Country Under My Skin by Gioconda Belli, Las Mil Y Una Historias de la Radio Venceremos (Rebel Radio), Stone Butch Blues, Octavia Butler's Xenogenesis series, Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer, Outlaw Woman by Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz

favorite movies: Beautiful Boxer; the Jason Bourne trilogy; Shrek trilogy; Brokeback Mountain; Frida; Rabbit Proof Fence

music: Aterciopelados, Jarabe de Palo, Be Good Tanyas, Ozomatli, Mississippi John Hurt, K-OS (toronto), Talib Kweli, Jean Grae

food: maduros (sweet plantains) with ginger and garlic, gluten-free dairy-free sugar-free banana walnut chocolate chip pancakes (yea, i make 'em and they're GOOD), tacos de res, pumpkin pie (how my dad makes it)
Now in Spanish
libros favoritos: Zorro -- Isabel Allende, GENDERqUEER, Assata, El Pais Bajo Mi Piel -- Gioconda Belli, Las Mil Y Una Historias de la Radio Venceremos (Rebel Radio), Stone Butch Blues, Octavia Butler's Xenogenesis series, Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close -- Jonathan Safran Foer, Outlaw Woman -- Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz

peliculas favoritas: Beautiful Boxer; the Jason Bourne trilogy; Shrek trilogy; Brokeback Mountain; Frida; Rabbit Proof Fence

musica: Aterciopelados, Jarabe de Palo, Be Good Tanyas, Ozomatli, Mississippi John Hurt, K-OS (toronto), Talib Kweli, Jean Grae, Dixie Chicks

comida: maduros con jengibre y ajo, pankays sin lecheria ni azucar ni harina de trigo, con platano, nuez y chocolate chip (yo los hago y son RICOS), tacos de res, pumpkin pie (como lo hace mi papa)

The six things I could never do without

1. social justice 2. queer & gender-variant folks 3. agave nectar 4. visual art 5. music 6. fried chicken
Now in Spanish
1. justicia social 2. gente queer y genero-variante 3. agave nectar 4. artes visuales 5. musica 6. pollo frito

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how to be present in my body and aware of my emotions, what to do with myself now that i'm "funemployed", how to share my skills and organizing tools, what to eat, how to find time for all the art projects I want to do...
Now in Spanish
como estar presente en mi cuerpo y conciente de mis emociones, que hacer con mi vida ahora que no tengo empleo formal, como compartir mis habilidades y herramientas de organizar, que es lo que quiero comer...

On a typical Friday night I am

at home watching a movie and eating popcorn
Now in Spanish
en la casa viendo una pelicula y comiendo palomitas

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i tend to reveal too much so i'm holding back on this one...
Now in Spanish
normalmente digo demasiado, asi que me mantengo callado esta vez...

You should message me if

if you want to help me come up with dance moves for my group house dance team, or if you like making a feast and eating it, if you're looking for a snuggle partner or for a romp-in-the-mud buddy. if you are queer-positive and trans-positive. if you know about eating healthy local foods and can teach me some food tricks. if you are connected to your body. if you love gender variance as much as I do. if you are excited about organizing history and lessons we can put into practice today.