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65 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity but it’s not important
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Back again after a break. This would be a great place to tell you all about myself if I was single, but I'm not, so I can't. I am actively looking to see if there are any like minded souls out there and can't say if it will work, but I'm giving it a try. I suppose that I am directing this message to ladies who are married and are of the same mindset as me, or to those who are looking for a distraction and not a soulmate. Discretion is very important to me and if you don't understand why I have posted a picture of the back of my head, I guess you don't understand the meaning of discretion and would not be a good match. I don't want to upset the status quo in my marriage, but I would certainly like a little more pizzazz in my life and I know for sure that I could introduce more excitement into your life. If you make contact, or accept a message from me, know that I am willing to explain my circumstances to you.
So....... I would like to flirt with you a little before getting more adventurous. Let's start with messaging on this site and see if there is chemistry. I have a sunny disposition, and I just love being in the company of, or talking to good looking women who are interesting to talk to. I'm exceptionally well travelled, erudite, intelligent, smart, have a good sense of humour and dare I say it – charming and handsome. I’m also quite modest (as well as being confident), fit and height, weight proportional. Think about me as a man who has seen much of the world and has matured like a fine wine or an elegant single malt scotch.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it to the full, but I would like an occasional dalliance with a good looking, interesting, intelligent fair lady who doesn't want to claim me as a permanent, personal possession and lecture me about why I am wrong to be doing this.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Massage, but I may be getting ahead of myself here. I'm really good at conversation with the right person, so if you are interesting and interested, we might be able to talk for hours. I've never been backward at coming forward to blow my own trumpet, but it's all a bit hollow unless someone is actually listening, so if you want to know what else I'm good at, maybe you'll have to ask.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Seriously? This is not the thing that usually comes into conversation, so I've never asked anybody, but it might be the ready smile and the twinkling eyes.
I guess it might depend on whether you are seeing me from across the room in the company of friends, or whether we have passed on the street, or whether indeed we have been introduced to one another. I feel sure that an interested person might notice something different in each scenario.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Home made bread, Onions, garlic, potatoes, red wine, whisky, veggies and fruit. OOOps! that's too many. O.K., well onions and garlic can be interchanged, as can fruit and veggies.

...and that is only food! I'm confessing to feeling challenged with this question. It requires more soul searching than I think should be necessary.
I'm already living without sex, but I'm hoping to correct that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Family, (parents, siblings, spouse, children), friends, love, happiness, sex, my past life and various jobs I've had, missed opportunities, my present life, new opportunities not to be missed, food, baking bread, dogs, people, and how did we in the western world descend to this cult of celebrity worship and reality TV shows. It's too shallow, and I worry about the future. How will the younger generation cope with all the changes being made in the world? What do they really know about the rest of the world and how these changes will affect us/them?. ...and there are not enough good jobs for the younger generation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably sitting at home watching a movie. The days of going out dancing and socializing seem to be over, unless I go out and do it by myself and that won't work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not happy that I'm doing this, but I refuse to go without sex for the rest of my life.
You should message me if
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1) you understand where I am coming from and would like to commiserate or exchange views and perhaps even meet.
2) you would like to exchange e-mails on a regular or intermittent basis and you are interesting, intelligent, attractive woman.
3) you might be interested in exchanging sexy, erotic letters even if you don't want to meet.
4) or if you just want to chat to see how the other half live.