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43 Gainesville, FL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 19
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The sorting hat would put me in Ravenclaw...

I actually kinda like going to bed by 11, but sometimes I like to stay out late and dance like a fool...

I'm religious but not spiritual (RBNS)...

I've actually hung out with my wife's boyfriend's parents...

My secret ambition is to throw the best dinner parties in Gainesville...

Utterly baffled by Lindy Hop (I've had 5 lessons so far), but I'm determined to get it...

I like to enjoy high-quality vanilla ice cream slowly, with my own homemade sauces added...

And, I've discovered I really like Japanese tea ceremony...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Why yes, I *am* a potter, thank you for asking. Librarian is just my day job. For like the last 15 years. But I still make pots.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm fluent in over 12 different accents
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look like a little bit like Michel Foucault when I wear a turtleneck
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Most recent book I read: Let's discuss diabetes with owls by David Sedaris

Most recent movie I saw: Grand Budapest Hotel

Last TV show I watched: Mad Men

Last restaurant at which I ate food: Cafe Pasqual in Santa Fe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Plenty of fresh air and sunshine
- Touch and eye contact
- Laughter
- Lunch at the kind of restaurant where you can order a glass of wine
- Plenty of sleep
- Reasonably priced modern design (Thank you IKEA! 😘)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Designing objects (no, really, I got like a million sketches)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Flying back to Gainesville from Santa Fe
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I actually kind of like romantic comedies
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you self-identify as female *and* you're not afraid to message a strange guy on OKC who self-identifies as a good kisser, then kudos to you, kudos!