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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 37–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Has a kid
English, Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I don't believe life is linear. I don't live my life to be able to fit in a neat little box.

A quote from my friend - I don't have a million dollars but I have a million dollar life.

I am brazen, saucy and sassy.

I'm ready for a new adventure
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hanging out with friends
Living. Working.
Watching a lot of movies.
Watching soccer and baseball.
Getting back to running and wandering.
Joined a book club
Raising my baby son solo - single mother by choice (i.e. no baby daddy drama or expectations to help or play a father role)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being excellent in people's presence
being a friend
making excel spreadsheets
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my boobs, lips and hair
after that my wise wit
inability to be subtle
opinions (look i'm honest and horribly blunt - i have a very thin, hole-filled filter)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i like a lot of things, but doesn't everyone

first i'm a vegetarian and not a foodie - but do appreciate good food though I don't go looking for it

books - does it really matter what i read; last few year A LOT of non fiction; I like a good biography; fav fiction authors are Chuck Palahniuk; Wally Lamb and Tom Robbins

movies - narrated film does it for me in a big way; indie stuff as i am an alt-rock-punk-indie chick - but i laugh my ass off at things like dodge ball; zoolander, etc. And for some reason Step-Brothers left me in stitches - i think of the chewbacca mask and I can't help but laugh out loud

And I'm into Peep Show in a massive way.

music - guns-n-roses; aerosmith; neil diamond; van morrison - of late Kymba Wilson; Ayo; Amelia Ray; Fiona Apple; leona naess
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Peep Show and British Tat
lazy days (i wish i owned a hammock)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the state of the world - education policy; the crazy things that become headline news

what my friends are up to

why most men on hear have a headshot that makes them look like a lunatic - who takes selfies in front of a toilet; do you know how to smile?

how to take over the world :p
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
this is kind of a stupid one to answer because every friday night is different, who has a routine like that

but I'm a single mom so i tend to have a routine now - sister comes over to spend time with her nephew so I can have some alone time
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really an open book - so I don't have a lot of private things in the first place

just ask

trust me it takes a lot to shock me and a little to make me roll my eyes
You should message me if
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You are really spectacular and authentic.

You see me as a human with many adjectives and not something you can label into a box. That says more about how boring and simple you are than about who I am.

You are looking for a dame not a lady.

And you aren't just looking for sex, aren't wearing a tie in your main profile photo; aren't holding a gun in your main profile photo; aren't smiling in any of your photos - serious wtf is going on; aren't going to write to me "u r hot" vs "you are quite attractive"; aren't under the age of 38.