baking_kitty
28 Severn, MD
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My self-summary
The highlights: veteran, genderfluid (male pronouns), geek, rugger, sex positive, active in the BDSM and Leather scenes.

I identify as a genderfluid person. Biologically I am female, but my gender shifts. I prefer male pronouns. If you happen to call me "her" or "she" I won't be terribly upset. As long as you call me by the right name, it doesn't much matter to me.

I am heavily involved in the BDSM and Leather communities. Just because I am involved in them does NOT mean I expect my partner to be. I can still do and thoroughly enjoy vanilla things. Don't get too hung up on it.

I'm looking for someone to date casually. I am in an open relationship with two wonderful people. My partners are aware of every potential romantic interest, and I don't keep secrets from them.
What I’m doing with my life
I was just awarded my master's degree in international conflict and security studies. My work focuses on analysis in support of military operations. When I'm not focusing on the job, I spend a lot of time supporting my community through service. Or playing rugby. I'm a massive geek. I'm looking to join a tabletop role playing group as I've been watching a lot of #CriticalRole.
I’m really good at
I love a good cigar. My current favorite is Connecticut 1999. However I have started branching out. I have taken a special interest in collecting straight razors. I actually do shave men's faces.

When I'm not playing with things that are on fire or capable of slicing open flesh I love to read a good book. I spend a lot of time around my friends. When I remember to read I pick up books on international conflict resolution, urban fantasy and alchemy.

I am an absolute GEEK and love Dr. Who, Warehouse 13, imgur, 90's cartoons and stand up comedy. There are t.v. shows I can throw quotes from back and forth all day long. My attention span for movies is minimal. Sorry movie buffs!
The first things people usually notice about me
I am 6'0" tall on a good day, and 5'11.5" on a short day. This means that I have a LOT of leg.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hmm.

Books:

The Count of Monte Cristo
Kushieline series, by Jacqueline Carey
InCryptid series by Seanan McGuire
October Daye series by Seanan McGuire
The Hollows series by Kim Harrison

Plays:

Hamlet (I have at least three printed copies of the play. I have a freakin' Hamlet tattoo!)

Movies:
America's Sweethearts (my FAVORITE romantic comedy)
The Princess Bride

Shows:
Last Week Tonight with John Oliver
How I Met Your Mother
Dr. Who
Warehouse 13
Law & Order: SVU
Law & Order: CI
Chopped
Project Runway
Inkmaster

Music:
Classic rock
Blues
1950's era rock n' roll
Country
Rap
Cello

Food:
Thai
German
Italian
Iraqi
Afghani
The six things I could never do without
1. water- I am a Pisces, and it is incredibly important to my sanity
2. my adopted family members- they make my life that much more wonderful
3. music/stand up- it soothes when necessary, and causes great pleasure
4. physical touch- going without touch, even the platonic kind, for an extended period of time does NOT go well for me
5. alternative lifestyles (BDSM & open relationships)- this is not only a huge part of my life, it is an incredibly large part of who I am
6. my cat- he's helped me through a lot of life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Attending a Leather or kink event at a local bar. Watching Netflix and hanging out with my cat. Listening to stand up comedy while reading a book. Sleeping. Early and often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Random: I have never had a monogamous relationship, and I'm not really looking to.

Funny: I once broke a tooth biting in to bread. To be fair it was the day after a cracking good tackle in rugby. (Seriously. My bones made cracking noises.)
You should message me if
Anything you've read interests you. If you're looking to get to know someone in your area for a casual relationship that will likely consist of dates, snuggling and sex.

As an aside I will not accept or appreciate blatant offers for sex. They are tacky, rude and unwelcome.
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