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27 F Mankato, MN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 19
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I identify as a genderfluid queer person. Right now I'm starting to explore the more masculine side of who I am. This does not mean that I have forsaken the female parts of myself. I am heavily involved in the BDSM, poly and Leather communities. Just because I am involved in them does NOT mean I expect my partner to be. I can still do vanilla things. Don't get too hung up on it.

I'm looking for someone to date casually. I'm in an open relationship and moving in September. So serious isn't on the agenda.
What I’m doing with my life
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I will be moving to Belgium in September to start my master's degree in international conflict resolution. I recently obtained my bachelors degree in international relations. When I'm not engrossed in school work I spend time with my partner, attend events in the BDSM community and snuggle with my cats.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love a good cigar. My current favorite is Connecticut 1999. However I have started branching out. I have taken a special interest in collecting straight razors. I actually do shave my boyfriends face. Haven't gotten to the point where I can wield a straight razor yet. When I'm not playing with things that are on fire or capable of slicing open flesh I love to read a good book. My job necessitates that I enjoy people and being an extrovert. I spend a lot of time around my friends. When I remember to read I pick up books on international conflict resolution, Hinduism, alchemy and BDSM. I am an absolute GEEK and love Dr. Who, imgur, 90's cartoons and stand up comedy. There are t.v. shows I can throw quotes from back and forth all day long. My attention span for movies is... minimal. Sorry movies buffs!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am 6'0" tall on a good day, and 5'11.5" on a short day. This means that I have a LOT of leg.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Count of Monte Cristo
The Hunger Games trilogy
Kushieline series, by Jacqueline Carey

Remember the Titans
America's Sweethearts (my FAVORITE romantic comedy)
The Princess Bride

How I Met Your Mother
Dr. Who
The Big Bang Theory

Classic rock
1950's era rock n' roll

Middle Eastern
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. water- I am a Pisces, and it is incredibly important to my sanity
2. my adopted family members- they make my life that much more wonderful
3. music- it soothes when necessary, and causes great pleasure
4. physical touch- going without touch, even the platonic kind, for an extended period of time does NOT go well for me
5. alternative lifestyles (BDSM & polyamory)- this is not only a huge part of my life, it is an incredibly large part of who I am
6. stand up comedy- serves the same purpose as music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How exactly does one pick a thesis? Is Flemmish difficult to learn? When is this polar vortex crap going to stop?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Following my friends around playing DD at a country bar. Relaxing during the few hours that I am not working or in school. Attending one of many amazing kink focused events.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have never had a monogamous relationship, and I'm not really looking to.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Anything you've read interests you.

Or you know how to make kaboli pulau. Or any dish that I don't.

If you're a veteran and want to discuss our mutual experiences with the military.

As an aside I will not accept or appreciate blatant offers for sex. They are tacky, rude and unwelcome.