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bakspingrl

29 / F / straight / Single

San Antonio, Texas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am introverted, moody, and unpredictable.

My Self-Summary

I am relatively new to Texas, for the third time. I have done short stints in Austin and Corpus in previous years but most recently I lived in North Carolina for the last five years. I moved back specifically to attend school at UIW in San Antonio and very much want to get back to the east coast.

I am extremely picky and entirely uncertain what I really want. I am ruled by my moods which are unpredictable at best. I may or may not respond to you depending entirely on my mood at the time that I receive your query. This applies even after we've been speaking for months. Or years.

I am honest in everything I say. Watch out for what I don't say.

I'm not desperately seeking a future husband, more I'd just like the opportunity to get to know people. I'll probably never sleep with you.. so if that's all you're looking for, keep looking. In fact, I almost never even kiss on the first date.. so if it ever even gets that far - don't take it personally. If I do happen to do one of those two things with you, it may or may not mean anything either. Sorry.

I am usually very laid back and nearly impossible to offend. I enjoy lazy afternoons spent lounging in the sunshine somewhere.. a park, a patio, a pool .. you get the idea. I grew up in Arizona with my three younger brothers and my Dad and yes, I can change my own tires and my own oil.. but that's it. I enjoy baseball and hockey but I don't cry if my team loses and if you do, I promise I will laugh at you, in front of you and everything.

What I’m doing with my life

Raising my daughter the best I can and trying to finish school. Eventually I want to be completely self-sufficient and able to travel the world.

I’m really good at

Finding things that are lost. Giving the kind of advice no one wants.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have always wanted to see myself through someone else's eyes... until that happens, I don't have a good response for this.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

BOOKS I like almost anything by Chuck Palahniuk. My all time Fave so far is Fountainhead by Ayn Rand and I am STILL trying to sit down with Atlas Shrugged. I have been on a James Rollins kick lately too. Other than that--textbooks.

MOVIES Man on Fire. Southland Tales. Donnie Darko. I like action, explosions and a good fight scene but I almost always close my eyes during scary movies. Also not to be missed: Eddie Izzard; Dress To Kill.

MUSIC Breakbeat, period. Other stuff is cool but it always comes back to that.

FOODS Mexican is a forever favorite. Fresh fruits (organic IS better) are awesome also.

The six things I could never do without

In no particular order: 1. My toothbrush 2. My razor 3. A sense of purpose 4. My daughter 5. Music 6. My quiet time

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where I will be in five years. Homework and how long can I really put it off for...

On a typical Friday night I am

Home, with my daughter. Or, If I have a babysitter you will find me on a dance floor, somewhere.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have visible tattoos and multiple piercings. These things would be fairly obvious the minute we meet though.

You should message me if

You want to.

I leave my IM chat off 99% of the time. So, if you'd like to talk, send me an email.