My name is Brian. Lets see...where to begin....well, for starters, I am not like any guy you've most likely ever met. Yes, I understand that many men have claimed that, but here is my reasoning for the claim. I love God, football, LOTR & the hobbit, movies, random facts, nerdy material, music, musicals, theater, working out, cooking, spending time with friends family, adventures, making people laugh, camping, working hard, playing hard, reading, driving, and debating. Believe me yet? No? here's more; I am a graduate student at bethel university for counseling psychology for kids and teens and I work as a PCA. This means that I am a hard worker, have a smidgen of intelligence, am a major nerd, and have a serious desire to help people. Still not convinced? Okay, fun fact about me; I was raised by a single-mom. I was taught from an early age to notice things, be chivalrous, try to take care of those around me, and put the toilet seat down. Benefits of these attributes: Observation; I will notice when you cut your hair, get new clothes, try a new perfume, and/or need a hug. Chivalrous- I open doors for people, regardless of age or gender. Call it MN nice, but I do it. The other two speak for themselves I like to think :)
Still reading? Excellent, now here is what I need my girl to be: Happy, christian, smart, musical, sense of humor, doesn't take life too seriously, good with kids, loves family, can dance or is at least willing to dance, good hygiene, smiling is her favorite, and does not freak out easily. Here are some attributes that would be awesome; put up with my nerdiness, can sing, likes to work out, loves to camp, can cook, can sew (don't worry, I do housework too, I don't need to be taken care of), and loves dogs....and doesn't like cats....I don't like cats....they make me sneeze and stuff. I have allergies, so basically anything with dander makes me sneeze :/ doesn't mean I won't load up on allergy meds though :) That being said, if you're a smoker, we won't work out. I don't like the smell, the tarry kisses, etc. of smokers. I'm sure you're wonderful people, just not for me to be in a relationship with :) I'm looking for a partner in crime that would fight for me as hard as I would fight for her.
So in a nut shell, if you want a guy who will ignore you, forget your birthday and/or anniversary, will maybe get you a card and sign it for valentines day, never do anything for you without wanting something in return, can't cook, hates to dance, doesn't want to have deep conversations with you, doesn't like kids, and doesn't appreciate you....then I'm not your guy.
P.S. As you've probably gathered, I'm a talker, so if you're into one word responses....we probably won't work. Also I love questions, so feel free to ask away :)