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banana-fish

37 Brooklyn, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:14pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Pale as ghost. Sable-humored humanist. A moon-blanched desert with some mountains and a sea over there.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I write fiction. I tend bar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. I can create a narrative well. I'm autodidactic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Raymond Carver. David Foster Wallace. Kurt Vonnegut. Alice Munro...

Drugstore Cowboy. Best in Show. Magnolia. Synecdoche, NY. Blue Is The Warmest Color.

The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmitt. Better Call Saul. Black Mirror.

forgetters. The Kills. Bad Religion. Bob Dylan. Built to Spill.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creativity. Introspection. Dignity. A computer. Books. A stove.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
if there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and if that light is the light on the front of a train––how to deal with that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
looking anxious and wanting to leave.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're intelligent, wise and humble. Be well read and have eclectic taste. Be your own person, strongly so. If you were singing along to a song forever, singing the wrong lyrics, but the words you sang were more clever than what had been sung.