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banana_compadre

25 / M / bisexual / Available

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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Your Notes

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I am Adventurous, Ersatz, and Happy go lucky.

My Self-Summary

Hmm, I'm pretty bad at writing these sorts of things, so I will just give a list instead. I identify as, in no particular order:
Anarchist
Musician
Hacker (as in I love programming, Do not ask me to hack your facebook or you will seriously get a pie in the face)
Geek
Kinky (I'm a switch for those who are curious. (This means I'm a Dom and a Sub, or a Top and a Bottom))
Polyamorous
Vegetarian

I like to read a lot (currently about the spanish civil war) and I like to program computers for fun. I'm also very interested in activism and sustainable anarchist societies. I like to travel and I like to learn new things. I would like to be in a 3 person relationship. My partner is also on okcupid she is LumpyDumpling. We are looking to expand the bounds of our relationship to include polyamoury and/or polyfidelity.

What I’m doing with my life

I write, I read, I program, I cook and eat delicious vegetarian food (not a zealot about being vegetarian). I hang out with my little brother. I try to see my friends all the time! I think about life and what it means and how to achieve my goals.

I’m really good at

Listening, and really good at figuring people out and making friends. I'm also quite good at computers. I like to think that I'm good at music, but I'm actually not (I'm decent at singing though) I'm really good at research and analysis. I'm good at falling on my face! I'm also a pretty good cook.

The first things people usually notice about me

People seem to notice that I'm really friendly, and that I am a geek. I don't know what else they notice about me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books:
Homage to Catalonia, Lord of The Rings, Why's (poigniant) Guide to Ruby, Snow Crash, Cryptonomicon, Neuromancer, The C Programming Language (Dork Alert!), 1984, Harry Potter, Cats Cradle, Dune, Little Brother, Shes such a geek.

Movies:
Hackers, Ghost Dog, Star Wars, Amelie, The Secretary, Serenity, Turkish Star Wars (Best movie ever, I think its on google video, you should go watch it right now).

Music:
Operation Ivy, Aus-Rotten, KRS-ONE, Talib Kweli, Mac Dre, What Happens Next?, DS-13, Agent Orange, Mongolian Throat Singing, Gogol Bordello, Doom, Sole, Eskapo, Jhonny Cash, Tupac, FFF, Duran Duran Duran. Basically I like almost anything that is not on the charts, but especially, punk rock, hip hop and break core.

Food:
Pizza, Burritos, Pizza-Burritos (oh yes, it does exist), Fried Tofu, Baked Tofu, Tempeh BLT, Falafel. I fuckin love food!

The six things I could never do without

Good Food, Adventure, My Computer, Internet, My Music, My friends

I spend a lot of time thinking about

eating, anarchy, philosophy, programming, other people

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually going to a show or getting drunk, or hanging out with friends, lately its been watching a movie or reading a book more often since I moved out of the city :( But still having some drinks and seeing friends as much as possible.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I could really stand to shower more often I suppose

You should message me if

You are kinky (preferably a Dom or a Switch) and you are interested in getting to know BOTH me and my partner LumpyDumpling. People who are only interested in one of us need not apply!

Also, contact me if you have seen 'The Holy Mountain' or can explain LISP to me while getting drunk. Or if you can discuss the finer points of bay area underground hip hop. Also if you have any of the following accomplishments:

You failed the turing test (or wrote a bot that passes it).
You have ascended with the amulet of yendor.
You can still hit a bullseye in darts 10 beers in.