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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 18
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Working on space camp
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I value strong communication skills, the ability to appreciate differences, willingness to try new things, self confidence, self reliance, and self actualization. I avoid relationship drama, and am looking for a partner for mutual support, growth, and adventure. I provide not because I expect reward or acknowledgement, but because it's the right thing to do. I'm a good listener, and I look for the meaning behind the action. I'm often calm and reserved because I observe first, think second, and take action third.

I'm a scientist at heart, get a thrill from discovery and understanding, and I think genetic engineering will help save our species. I'm also a skeptic and I'll want to see the data to back up the conclusion; extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.

I'm dyed-in-the-wool geek. I like music played on old floppy disk drives and Tesla coils, modern designer board games, songs about Code Monkeys, Star Trek and real technology inspired by Star Trek. I think Big Bang Theory is cringe-inducingly offensive.

I'm not spiritual or religious, but the idea that "we are all made of star stuff" is deeply satisfying and humbling. I feel only greater wonder at the Universe to look out and see atoms dance and forces at work.

Warm, generous, self-educated theatre artist and computer programmer with a good sense of humor and a penchant for board games and roller derby.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning how to quad-skate so that I can referee for the Santa Cruz Derby Girls. Working for the money. Going to college for fun. Tinkering with and playing board games. Occasional acting in the theater. Unskillfully playing the ukulele. Getting back in shape.

Former Burning Man regular, I hope to go back some day. These days my vacation of choice is the JoCoCruise, a week long Caribbean cruise full of music, board games, and fellow creative, life-loving geeks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computers and technology. Space information. Internet culture, in a removed sort of way. Voice acting. Experiencing reverence for the fact of matter and energy. Photography. Debugging code. Kissing and sexy stuff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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What If by Randall Munroe.

I am Phillip J. Fry. Twin Peaks was good until they revealed whodunnuit. I watch more YouTube that modern television. House of Cards was/is good, and someday I'll watch The Wire. Game of Thrones, Agents of SHIELD, Community, etc.

Jonathan Coulton, RUSH, P!nk, Ratatat, They Might Be Giants, Depeche Mode. Rock Band is one of the best video games.

I like lots of different kinds of food: sushi, Mexican, Thai, Indian, pho, burgers, Italian...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How global environment changes is going to affect our chances of colonizing other planets. What songs I'm going to sing on the next JoCoCruise.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Game night with friends, watching a movie, introvert stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a museum replica of an Archaeopteryx skeleton on my bedroom wall.
You should message me if
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I'm just trying to make a connection. Message me if you are too.

You like puns, or you think genetic modification technology is actually a good thing.