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bandanafishes

49 / M / Gay / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Jun 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm easy-going, non-judgmental, and, I think, I have a healthy sense of perspective. I'm fairly self-aware and have an easy time laughing at my own foibles (not that I have any, though :o). I have an ever-present -- though fairly dry -- sense of humor. Some people I perpetually crack up; others just think I'm looney. And sometimes I'm just goofy.

I adore animals, especially furry ones. I have three cats that have been part of my family for 14+ years.

I frequently and spontaneously hyper-focus on weird stuff that doesn't relate to anything in my life (yet). I deeply value continual intellectual and emotional growth and stimulation. I'm also a sci-fi and gadget freak, er, I mean, aficionado. :o) My musical tastes are very broad -- classical, jazz, rock, 50's, pop, some modern country, even a little hip-hop. I really value spontaneity, though that doesn't always describe me.

I like people who can communicate openly and honestly, who know -- and are at peace with -- themselves, are honest, compassionate, bright, and easy-going -- but capable of being serious as well when appropriate. And my favorite part of the human body is the face and eyes, though I also value people being conscious of their health, as I think that's part of loving one's whole self.

I value my own health and fitness. But I value striving over perfection. I eat pretty consciously, and I work out typically 3x a week. But I do this for myself and don't have any such requirement of others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
One book I read recently that I really connect with is The Power of Now -- and in particular the idea that our mind is not who we are.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 31–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners