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banddreamer

38 Collingswood, NJ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:34am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a mixture of both class and crass. I'm quirky and sarcastic with geeky tendencies.

I have a bucket list. It includes writing a book, making an album and traveling to Australia. I believe that you should at least see one new place a year.

Sense of humor? I've been told dry and quirky (as you can tell from the first line). My politics are moderate, but I tend to lean left of center of many things.

I am looking for a person to enjoy life with. Life is just better with someone along for the ride. In general I enjoy going to cultural events or interesting places. I still have yet to make it to the Magic Gardens on South Street.

A really cool person would be someone who thinks renting cheesy movies and some wine (or ice cream) can make for an entertaining evening. Important things in a companion include a sense of humor, a sense of curiosity, compassion and intelligence.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to build my own website.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sarcasm. I don't think many people can out sarcasm me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Height I guess. Not sure what else.

Probably I come off as laid back.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Yacht Rock, Television Personalities, the Beatles, Bob Dylan, Guided by Voices, Archers of Loaf, Sebadoh, the Kinks, Interpol, Dinosaur Jr., MGMT, Black Sabbath, Standard Fare, Hall and Oates, classical like Debussey and Janacek. Big Star's Third/Sisters Lovers is a thing of beauty.

I love movies from great ones to great cheesy ones. Dark Knight, the Third Man, La Dolce Vita, PT Anderson (I don't understand the fascination with Wes Anderson), the Hustler, 2001, Scorsese. I also enjoy fun blockbusters. Plus all the good end-of-the-year movies. I don't watch too many TV shows. Sherlock and Parks and Recreation.

I'm always reading a book. Right now, winesburg, Ohio by Sherwood Anderson. Also like john Le Carre, last temptation of christ, catch 22, history books.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Forget six. I think you only need three:

Someone to love
Something to do
Something to look forward to

....oh and my smart phone (make that four things)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Police academy and which one was the best...I think citizens on patrol
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a typical Friday night. I could be at home resting after a busy week at work. I could be out for happy hour. In the past few weeks, I went to a haunted house and then to see the Philadelphia Orchestra. During the summer, I go to LBI a lot. I go to the gym and usually meditate though.
You should message me if
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If you are a kind person, smart, quirky, interesting to talk to, who doesn't take herself too seriously.