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23 / M / straight / Seeing someone

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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I am infinite, beginning, and hungry.

My Self-Summary

Do you ever get stoned late at night and nakedly sing Fleetwood Mac songs at yourself in the mirror making rock star faces? You too!? We'll get along just fine.

I'll just give you some context and let you figure it out...

Polyhedra, trees, stillness, canoe, burritos, the Shack, drawing, sewing, building, banjo, guitar, mandolin, bikes, mittens, stickers, thank you cards, Sports Basement, spirit, penpals, industrial design, Abraham-Hicks and honesty.

I can do with or without monogamy/exclusivity, but I appreciate that many feel they need it. The only must for me is a genuine connection. (See Depeche Mode's "Enjoy the Silence" for details)

What I’m doing with my life

Playing the music, singing the songs, climbing the rocks, loving the friends, loving the lifes, loving the girlfrand, working the jobs, reading the books, meditating the awareness, drawing the pictures, hiking the woods, designing the products, and finishing the portfolio.

Letting go of the desire for external validation. Taking it easy even when the latter is not going so well.

I want to start a business... I just don't know which one! I have a carousel of projects that I sketch and build on, but one has yet to grab my focus for a period of more than a week (at best). I'm sitting on the capital, the resources, the people and I'm starting to get just sick enough of retail...

I’m really good at

Lauding myself.

Being myself.

Taking criticism.

Doing what I say I will do when I say I will do it... Give or take 15 minute, usually give.

Gracefully or not so gracefully doing/saying what I think is right for me even though others may not like it.

Managing complex 4D forms in my mind's eye.

The first things people usually notice about me

Omg he's cho white :F

A customer recently told me I look like an elf. No, not the stately, Scandinavian and immortal variety of Tolkien's, but rather one of Santa's. Granted I was wearing a red sweatshirt under a green apron, but if that's all it takes...

I'm pretty big for my stature, or so I've been told.

My mustache is like the wind.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

You can skip this section, I know lists are boring.

Books:
Bucky Works, by Jay Baldwin
Finite and Infinite by Games, James Carse
Natural Capitalism, by Amory Lovins
Treason, by Orson Scott Card
The Sparrow, by Mary Doria Russel
The Dune Series (all of it), Frank Herbert
Hitchhikers Guide Series, Douglas Adams
Neuromancer, William Gibson

Motion Picture:
Kung Fu Hustle
Waking Life
I <3 Huckabees
Hackers
The Venture Brothers
Blade Runner
Trudell
Californication
Tampopo
Star Trek (except the new series... "Enterprise" I think, blegh)

Video Games:
Continuum
Sim City 2000
Katamari Damacy
Super Puzzle Fighter 2 Turbo
Blade Runner (yeah, there's a video game!)

Food:
Bad vegetarian (freegan). Avocado, Eggs, rice, beans, quinoa, leafy greens, prunes, oatmeal, coffee, tea, MUSHROOM.

Music:
Bluegrass and Old time to 80's Mod. Now:
John Fahey, Nelly Furtado, Atmosphere, Lynrd Skynrd, MGMT, Otis Redding, Bob Dylan, Fleetwood Mac, The Knife, The Stranglers, The Strokes, Bela Fleck. And so on. (thanks Kurt)

The six things I could never do without

One day, we will do everything with nothing! Actually, we do... we just don't know we know we do.

More pragmatically:

Fingernails
Puffy Cat Stickers
Cheeks (all variety)
Flax Seed
Cardboard + Packing Tape
Wuv
Crop Circles
Domes (super-category of cheeks)
The Asian Pacific Rim + Pacific Islands
Sweat Outfits
Quirks
Quarks
The occasional intensely analytical, creative, borderline argumentative, passionate, hilarious conversation about what is really on our minds.
Fart
Length
Girth
Desire
A decent Fry Pan
Uni-Suits
Water
Earth
Wind
Fire
Heart
CAPTAIN PLANET!
Stretch Pants

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Love (no, really, and not Disney's). It is a topic deserving of thought, given far too little. I see most people just internalize some bullshit model of love from their parents or worse, and it induces all kinds of mayhem they are unwilling to see or act upon. I'm seeking to rectify that.

http://www.spiritualcinemacircle.com/scc/ecs/public/main/validationMovie.html

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tXpYUbb9QUo&feature=related

On a typical Friday night I am

Pissing myself with laughter at alliteratively combining sexual acts with geologic formations; see: Anal Fissure, Double Penetration Plantation, Cunnilingus Creek, Bukkake Butte, Oral Outback, and so on. Thanks Kurt.

Alternately: brushing off the bedrock of Universe. Or playing video games. Or snuggling.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I want to get really good at sex.

I really like talking about feelings.

My last long term relationship was found on craigslist - the only post I've ever replied to on personals.

You should message me if

I find you attractive.

You want to play some music!

If you want to talk to me, don't wait around for me to fulfill my gender role. Extra points (in the form of gold star stickers) for messaging first; I love women who gleefully break that mold.

I have physical preferences, surprise! I like the round of belly, thick of thigh, almond of eye, dark of hair, flat of face, good of hand to name a few features that I find irresistible.

Age isn't just a number, but if you assess people by age alone that reveals your maturity level better than your age will.

Good luck.