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banjobrain

36 M Medina, OH

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:27pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Libra
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I tend to update my profile regularly as the past year of my life has been full of incredible transition. I believe that we are always growing, changing and evolving...and lately I think this is best reflected through a consistent update on my dating profile.

Currently, I am very busy with life. I work in the green industry - so spring is the busiest time of the year for me. In addition to my career, I am helping my parents manage the 20 acres of land they bought a few years back with the intent of starting a small business and sustainable organic farm.

In addition to working full time at my day job and weekends and occasional weeknights spent at the farm, I spend a lot of other time studying an online permaculture design course (PDC) and organizing local permaculture-based meetup groups.

Over the past 12 months, I have been working diligently to escape the rat race. I executed an action plan to leave my corporate job of almost 6 years to work for a small family-owned local business. I have worked incredibly hard to rid myself of debt. I believe we are living in a false economy. I'm not living in fear, I'm just aware of the changing world around us and I try to live deliberately while building a homestead.

As previously stated in past profile updates, I have an INFJ personality according to the last Meyers Briggs type test I took (which was likely ~6 months ago). I'm a seeker, a wayfarer and an old soul. I find these tests help me learn about myself. As a matter of fact, it's probably about time I took a personality test again.

Taking another test is something I'll add to my ever-growing "to-do" list. I'm an Evernote junkie and use this as my second brain. Because I lead a very busy and active lifestyle, I really enjoy the down time when I have it. If you've read this far, I'd like to invite you to continue reading the rest of my profile.

It's worth mentioning I am 420 friendly and am interested in making friends to hang out, watch movies, etc as well.
What I’m doing with my life
For the bulk of my adult life, my wanderlust led me to spend many years living in various parts of the US, primarily Colorado, North Carolina and California. During this time, I spent 5+ years trying to "grow my career" - but ultimately decided that I am not cut out to climb the proverbial corporate ladder.

Over the past year, I have actively taken steps to remove myself from the corporate grind and begin working towards making the transition to homesteading and becoming a farmer. This is a slow and laborious process - which involves me living very modestly and likely moving into a trailer by June.

If the thought of this is not very appealing and/or you don't understand why I would consider doing this, then I suspect we will not have much common ground to share. If you're open-minded and curious about what's driving this decision, by all means...hit me up and we'll likely have some good dialogue.

I have met and dated several people through this site and have developed a couple friendships. Most of my dating experiences through this site have been positive and I am enjoying meeting different people from different walks of life.

At this point in my life, I'm not interested in committing to any one person - but am also not going to rule it out, either. I'm looking for more than simply "casual sex" - for I seek a true cerebral connection in addition to the physical connection.

Live deliberately.

Namaste.
I’m really good at
Filling out this profile on OkCupid.
The first things people usually notice about me
Lately...it seems to be my beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently, I am reading the most recent book of a series called "299 Days." Besides that, I am reading "Restoration Agriculture," by Mark Shepard. Those two are top on the current reading list.

Rather than specific books, I'd rather mention genres of what I like to read. I regularly read books about self-improvement, spirituality, informational e-books, erotica and books on homesteading, farming and self reliance.

I don't watch a tremendous amount of television, but when I do have an opportunity to do so, I enjoy series of television shows like Breaking Bad and Walking Dead. I like watching movies as well - but again, don't have a chance to do so very often.

Most music is tolerable to me. While I don't mind listening to pop music on the radio, I'd much rather prefer the selection on soma.fm. I enjoy live music, but my living schedule is such that it's more difficult to get out to live shows like I used to in the past.

I do enjoy eating and am making a deliberate attempt to eat clean and local when possible. Slow food = good food. Ethnic foods are delicious. I'm a closet junk food junkie, also. ;)
The six things I could never do without
Everybody's responses to this question are so..."interesting." I've spent a fair amount of time discussing this during the dates I've gone on.

This time around, I'm just going to dodge the question. Let's talk about it. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I've been, Where I am, and Where I'm going...
On a typical Friday night I am
During this time of year, I am busy working in the garden...or studying permaculture online with pizza and beer.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
...you find what's written in this profile appealing