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bar-nez

33 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:34pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Born and raised here in NYC, love to travel

I dance at inappropriate times. Walk too fast, learning to play guitar.

Have drivers license, can't drive.

I talk to myself a lot. Sometimes loudly, often in public.

Really, I'm just trying not to take myself or this life too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
Smashing it to bits; picking up the pieces. Sweeping the mess under the rug.

During the weekday hours I work on tour production and logistics for various orchestras and classical music artists.
I’m really good at
Putting out fires- both literal and metaphorical. Singing badly, biking up hills and over bridges.
The first things people usually notice about me
Sometimes I'm told that I smell nice ; sometimes not so nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm terrible at lists:

Duke Ellington, Ella Fitzgerald, Heitor Villa-Lobos, Mos Def, Biggie Smalls, the Rolling Stones, Robert Johnson, Crystal Castles, Beach House, Paradise Garage era disco, New York Dolls, Iggy and the Stooges, Jorge Ben, James Baldwin, Octavia Butler, Edith Wharton, Henry Miller, Flannery O'connor.
I'm all over the map.

•Currently reading: http://www.amazon.com/Visit-Goon-Squad-Jennifer-Egan/dp/0307477479

and

http://www.amazon.com/My-Life-Isadora-Duncan/dp/0871401584

•Currently listening to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8heLkixbh9w

I didn't set foot in a movie theatre in 2013 and am behind on all tv shows. I'm embarrassed by this.

I like olives.

My favorite Pepperidge Farm cookies are Brussels.
The six things I could never do without
I say pack light, travel far (actually Willa Cather said it, but I truly believe it).

Some things I need, others I cherish, including:

• comfortable socks
• good coffee (black americano)
• friends and family
• a good pen
• moisturizer
• my guitar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Airfares, visas and exchange rates.

Also:

Where did I put my keys?

What time is it in China?
On a typical Friday night I am
Damage, recover, repeat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll admit to just about anything, just ask
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've been to burning man and have some tips.