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bar-nez

34 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Born and raised here in NYC, love to travel

I dance at inappropriate times. Walk too fast, learning to play guitar.

Have drivers license, can't drive.

I talk to myself a lot. Sometimes loudly, often in public.

Really, I'm just trying not to take myself or this life too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Smashing it to bits; picking up the pieces. Sweeping the mess under the rug.

During the weekday hours I work on tour production and logistics for various orchestras and classical music artists.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting out fires- both literal and metaphorical. Singing badly, biking up hills and over bridges, walking through crowded rooms.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I'm told that I smell nice ; sometimes not so nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm terrible at lists:

Duke Ellington, Joan Didion, 2Pac, olives, Ella Fitzgerald, City of God, Heitor Villa-Lobos, Mos Def, Biggie Smalls, curried anything, the Rolling Stones, Robert Johnson, Crystal Castles, Beach House, Paradise Garage era disco, fish tacos, New York Dolls, Iggy and the Stooges, Jorge Ben, James Baldwin, Octavia Butler, Edith Wharton, Henry Miller, Flannery O'connor.

Dislikes include Sean Penn, R.E.M. and micheladas.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I say pack light, travel far (actually Willa Cather said it, but I truly believe it).

Some things I need, others I cherish, including:

• comfortable socks
• good coffee (black americano)
• friends and family (unoriginal yet true)
• a good pen
• moisturizer
• my guitar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Airfares, visas and exchange rates.

Also:

Where did I put my keys?

What time is it in China?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Damage, recover, repeat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My left leg is longer than my right
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you can laugh at yourself as much I laugh at myself, we'll get along famously.