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59 • Castro Valley, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–54
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 6:15pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from law school
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
But you can definitely call me a creative. I've been a writer and am a musician now and have been/am serious about both. Many but by no means all of my best friends are artists of one sort or another. I like people who dream.
I'm a SERIOUS late-bloomer. Down side to that: I'm 58 years old and while I'm finally making decent bucks, I don't have a realistic retirement plan. Upside: I am seriously healthier and more vigorous than at any time in my life and could literally run circles around my 30-year-old self, plus my career is on an upswing.
Optimistic/at-least-semi-realistic side: I'd say I have more of my best days in front of me than 99% of the 58-year-olds out there. I've got something of a Peter Pan complex and I'm not ready to start talking about vegetables and my aches and pains all day like my parents did before they died. I'm young, you dadgum whippersnappers! Young, I say!
Working/playing with my music pretty much daily.
Taking advantage of the best professional opportunity of my life.
Staying in shape, and trying to improve my fitness constantly.
Last but not least, I'm looking for love without benefit of a map.
Fact is, I'm good at lots of stuff, especially modesty. I am almost certainly the most modest individual in the entire history of the human species, and I'll be glad to tell you so.
Or Kindle irons, to be accurate. I had actually given up reading for pleasure before the e-reader came along. Fie on the tactile feel of the book in my hands, etc., etc., etc. I prefer the tactile feel of my entire library in my pants pocket.
Favorite musicians: The Beatles, Elton John, The Beatles, Frank Sinatra, The Beatles, Frank Zappa, The Beatles, and the Beatles. And please, ma'am, drag me into the 21st century. I'm ready, lord, I'm finally ready.
If you want to see something really funny . . . First, get to know me so I'll be at ease with you . . . and then cue up The Sound Of Music DVD. I'll cry like a baby.
When I'm awake, I think about lots of stuff. Probing strange ideas is like eating candy to me. Something I do a lot is think about stuff related to consciousness, will, and intent, how we perceive the world, whether the world is real, and why we want the things we want. Somehow, all that stuff seems related to me.
When I'm being really good, I work on my next song.
I don't spend a lot of time on regret, but I do try to spend enough time thinking about how to do the right thing with whatever's up next in my life.
You're active and at least in decent shape or working seriously to get there.
You feel good about your life and have joy to share.
You live with honor. (And you do it in the Bay Area.)
You speak English well enough to communicate your interesting ideas.
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