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barahir

35 M Buffalo, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:52am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So. Me.

I did one of those personality tests recently where your friends pick adjectives to describe you. I came up as silly, intelligent, friendly, witty and energetic. This probably means I'm a smart-ass'd spaz. So that's ok, seems pretty accurate.

I've been back in Buffalo for a few months now. Moved back with the intention of finishing up my degree, but that seems to be stalled until the fall now. But I suppose the old saying true; life is what happens when you're making other plans.

So I'm writing and plotting silly improv projects with friends, while working at a delightfully soul crushing office job. It's the american dream, twenty first century style.

I am thoughtful, energetic, and a fake extrovert.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm sitting in a chair in my room writing on my laptop. There's half a pack of cigarettes at arm's length. I may get up and smoke one after I'm done updating this section. But maybe I won't.

I've spent the last few years working at coffee shops here and in New England. It was fun, but I eventually sold out and got an adult job. These days I'm certified in office bitchery.. it's not the funnest thing in the world, but I've decided money isn't the worst thing in the world.

It's been a rough ride getting here. Its nice having things be easy for once.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling stories with friends, writing terrible poetry which no one will EVER SEE, ruminating, pontificating, and pondering. I can dance terribly, and do often enough. I can't sing, but that hasn't stopped me yet.

I'm also awesome. (and modest, apparently)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would be my sweet sweet ass.

See? Awesome?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(a) The Schroedinger's Cat Trilogy; American Gods and Gaiman in general; Lord of the Rings / The Silmarillion; Chronicles of Amber; On the Road; the Tao; the Bible; most good science fiction; Thus Spoke Zarathrusta and Nietzsche in general; Anything by Desmond Morris or Joseph Campbell along with Apocalypse Pretty Soon, which is just an amazing book I just finished. (b) The Royal Tenenbaums (c) Interpol, Radiohead, Cake, Soul Coughing, Supergrass, David Bowie (pre and post 80's), Tom Waits, Cursive, The Good Life, Bright Eyes, Death Cab, Iron & Wine, the Decemberists, Brian Eno, The Stars, Reel Big Fish etc. (d) __Amy's Place__, the best damn diner in the world, aside from that, coffee in general.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Autumn. (Blank space once held by Coffee. I just discovered I've developed an allergy. Tea is wonderful, but it's just not the same) Sculpture Park. My ipod. God I love that little thing. Filling up notebooks, then losing them. Friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's coming for me. The future of the world. Absent friends.

Until about six months ago, all my dreams had always been in the third person.. always played like movies in my head, I was never in them. A few months ago that changed to first person, and I became involved in my own dreams. Not sure what it means, but it seems meaningful.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends having a good time, or hidden away with a book at home. Either way, I'm happy. I think I've finally resolved my introvert/extrovert conflict.. and its come out a draw.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm secretly really scared of aliens. Little grey men, the wee bastards creep me out.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you can speak english. That'd be good.