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42 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:52am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Other and it’s important
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please before you message me figure out what polyamory is. Also don't message if you are searching for a wife or traditional relationship of any sort.

I am not looking for a Primary relationship...just to put that out there right up front. I am polyamorous although not in a primary relationship at the moment. I am happy to meet new friends and possibly a playful secondary relationship. I am also not exactly straight or bi.....I'm pansexual ( you fall in love with the person not the gender) I have been with both men and women but am slightly more to the male side.

I am very busy and enjoy my life that way. I am a part of two different communities and spend a lot of time out at events when I am not working. I am an introvert however and need alone time to recharge. I am everything from conservative to wild depending on the setting and the people I'm with.

I'm loyal to a fault and deeply spiritual (Unitarian). My personal theology leads me to label myself a Pagan-Unitarian-Christian. I participate in pagan rituals as well as Unitarian services, I however no longer practice straight Christianity.

I tend to take the road less traveled and it truly has made all the difference! I am a very logical person that believes in hard work. I almost never take the easy way out, in fact I have a bad habit of not even seeing the easy path sometimes it needs to be pointed out.

I am spiritual, a dancer, and i love to laugh
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now working and lets see working :) at the moment trying to achieve balance.

In the long term I am working towards buying a home to create my own home retreat centre. I also want to have foster children as I think it is something I can give to the world.

I enjoy taking care of both my body and mind with walking, meditating, and holistic eating habits.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Instigating change.
Taking care of other peoples children.
Listening to animals.
Herding Cats (AKA:working with large groups).
Making pagans and belly dancers look fabulous(see costuming).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile or maybe it's that I'm always smiling,

and then how comfortable I am in my own skin/life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Marion Zimmer Bradley's Darkover series has to be my all time favourite, Laurell K. Hamilton is in there too.

Movies: Dead Poets Society, Laura Croft Tomb Raider, The Original Muppet Movie and The Dark Crystal, just to show all the contrasts.

Music: Jazz, blues, something to swing dance to. Although, I like any music with a story line.

Food: Chocolate dark and rich. With anything lemon coming right in behind.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Water
2. Books
3. My cell phone
4. Pets
5. Hugs
6. Family

Although maybe not in order of importance.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to practice healthy polyamoury, boundaries, and communication styles
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am recovering from the week either at home or in the country. I might be in with a good book or a movie or out with friends in either location. I am a flaming introvert unless I'm out with a small group of friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would rather hear a hurtful truth than a comforting lie.
You should message me if
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If you are interested in meeting new and different people. If you would like to be friends or at least be friends first. If you like to laugh!!