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45 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:10pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
After ending a 10 year relationship, I've built a very happy life for myself; I am looking to meet interesting people and enjoy the experience. I'm looking (ultimately) for a relationship where we care for each other. Someone to have travel adventures with. Someone to share life, in short. And if I am lucky enough to find true love again ... fantastic :) Love like that is intoxicating.
I think people that know me, even slightly, most often describe me as "kind" ... the person that is always taking care of everyone else and having a great time doing it. And it's true ... I am deeply empathic. I can't stand to see someone hurting. According to the Enneagram test, I am a highly functional "type 2; the helper". You can check it out here:
The basics about me? ... my sister once described me as being "like a mouthfull of M&Ms". That is high praise, coming from a chocoholic. If it's any indication of my personality, I find people like Xavier Rudd, Maya Angelou, and Albert Einstein really inspiring. I love being outside - I live on the sea wall and really enjoy it. I love movies but dont watch much television. I enjoy pretty much any kind of music. I like to have "electricity free" nights where I just light candles and enjoy a good book, or practice yoga, or just pamper myself (sometimes I cheat a bit and play music). I like to discuss things, but am generally a quiet person.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm enjoying it! I have the most excellent family and friends a person could hope to have. I have a job that I love (mostly ... it's getting a bit too "corporate", but that's another story). And I live in the most beautiful city in the world. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I asked around for some opinions on this. Apparently I am good at singing (kids songs only, in my opinion), making things right, baking, appreciating people, and hugging. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my eyes ... and how easily I blush. It's my Scottish heritage, I guess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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omg ... too many to list here.
I love being outdoors doing pretty much anything. I love building things and fixing things and generally making things better. I love to read, watch movies (major sci if fan) listen to music, and cook. I absolutely loathe people who refuse to accept responsibility for their lives. Also, chewing with your mouth open will make me want to punch you :D (I won't, of course, but there it is)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Literally? In order of what would kill me first ... atmospheric pressure, solar energy, gravity, air, water, and the antidote.
Otherwise ... I'd be kind of sad without familiar connections, good books, humour, music, my keen intellect (ha!), and the certainty that there is a purpose for my life, even if I haven't figured it out yet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have a really important life goal, about the type of place I want to have. While my job is such that I figure I will always need to be in the city at least part time, I want to have a place in the woods. There`s a river or creek running through the property. It`s a place where everyone can gather. There`s a main house, and a few cozy little sleeper cabins for overnight guests. I have a garden and fruit trees. At night I can sit on the deck and look at the stars, drinking tea. That`s my idea of bliss.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually I am out with friends, but more often lately I've simply been at home recuperating from the work week, or preparing for a busy weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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An eye for an eye may leave everyone blind, but I'll admit I have a bit of a soft spot for vigilantism.
I also have an inexplicable fondness for lizards.
You should message me if
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... you're intrigued by anything here.

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