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barlee9

54 / M / Straight / Single

Virginia Beach, Virginia

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:53am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a single (divorced) 54 yr. old male in search of someone for friendship, dating and then go from there. I am independant and do not need someone to complete me, but instead would love a relationship to be completed (I hope that came out correctly). I believe I am a humble, confident man and also that honesty is the best policy. I love the outdoors esp. anything related to the beach I actually live at VABeach & enjoy just about all aspects of life here. I also love to cook and prepare nice and sometimes exotic meals for that someone special. These self-summary or explanations of yourself are somewhat difficult for me, not due to lack of self confidence, but I find it much easier to do this verbally.
What I’m doing with my life
I live alone in VABeach, and work in a professional human service field and I have since completing college in the early 80's.
I’m really good at
Helping others in many areas of their lives I also enjoy cooking, planning events, and being a good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
My ability to fit in or connect with others regardless of their background. My sincerity and honesty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books - "The Secret", The Big Book, The Power, & Bruce McArthur's - "Your Life, Why it is the Way it is & What You Can do About it.
The six things I could never do without
Good Friends,
Loving Family
Good Job (human service field)
Great music
Positive attitude
Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Not necessarily a lot of time but I often think about ways I can improve my life and also how I perform my work. I am in a helping profession and I always am willing to look at other and better ways to perform my job
On a typical Friday night I am
There are a number of activities I may get into, some depending on the time of year. I love outdoor activities, in warmer months I may go to the oceanfront for music on the boardwalk or something to eat. I am a Sushi lover and I often go to my favorite Sushi restaurant. At other times I may simply stay home and enjoy a movie on tv. I am always open to new suggestions of places to go or things to do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
would be discussed in private with someone!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 43–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are interested in exploring new adventures in this great area of this country that we live in. Meeting an honest man who believes that all people are equal and that thinking in a positive manner only attracts more positive things and people into their lives.