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27 M Sacramento, CA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Sep 11
Black, Indian, Hispanic / Latin
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Incredible fun-lover looking to share this awesome journey. My sexuality is fluid and not tied to gender - my hetero-identified friends say I'm gay, my homo-identified friends say I'm straight. My brown people say I'm not brown enough, my non-brown people say I'm their one black friend.

I'm a contradiction. There's beauty in that.

Queer, poly, fierce, fire eater. Three of these things are true.
What I’m doing with my life
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Saving the world via my day job, learning how to be a yoga teacher, watching a lot of people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Knowing a little about a lot and knowing a lot about the things I'm really passionate about; Education Reform, Sexual Health, Health Disparities, Yoga, and Feminism (not necessarily in that order.)

I'm also good at whatever I put my mind's one of the things I truly love about myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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90+% of messages I get from people online or strangers I meet have to do with my smile. I like that about myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pathologies of Power, Families We Choose, The Ethical Slut, To Save the World, Rant, Journey Into Power.

Movies with scathing cultural narratives really speak to me. I'm talking about The Purge, Timeless, Trainspotting, Requiem for a Dream. Do I think they're worthy of Best Picture? No. But do I think they turn the mirror on us? Absolutely.

I have an unapologetic yet deeply problematic love of Miley Cyrus and Lady Gaga - I don't agree with their politics but I think I get to make my own choices about my agency. Don't feel bad on my behalf.

I'm mostly vegetarian but won't go out of my way to not eat meat. I live for hole in the wall vegan, hipster vegetarian, and the tried and true Thai spots.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My yoga mat travels with me wherever I go. My spotify premium subscription keeps me sane. My iPad/iPhone keeps me connected to my world away from the physical one. My chosen families give me a sense of belonging. And hugs, because, hugs!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Feministy stuff. How Joss Whedon hasn't won a Nobel Prize yet. Why I always fall for hipsters, geniuses, and people who love old shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finding an excuse to take off most of my clothes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not wearing underwear in any of my pictures.
You should message me if
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You're passionate about social justice, feminism, people, pop culture, public health, or all of the above.

You're like, "dang! I wanna drink with that guy."