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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
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  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 10:04pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Film industry whore with a heart of gold, rode hard and put away wet..
What I’m doing with my life
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Not posting enough pics of myself skiing down a mountain or doing a yoga pose at a palm springs resort hotel. I work in the film industry (below the line) so of course i'm an emotional wreck and suspicious of people's motives. Sorry my photo album isn't more okc friendly like this one:

I'm not going to post photos of myself grimacing my way through a deadlift or squat but yeah i workout like most of you here. i don't hike ...i run (and lift)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i'm loyal & dependable. i'm always ready to pitch in and help a friend. if i ever stay overnight you'll likely find me sweeping up your yard or washing your dishes the morning after. or if you just want me to leave i can do that too. i'm a hard, diligent worker even when the job at hand sucks A. i'm resourceful & curious..i have a new-found knack for unclogging stuck drains. can deftly turn an old receipt into a napkin at a moment's notice. i take pictures...self-published a book and looking to do another. does that qualify me as an 'aspiring artist'? broken bmw hood latch? i'm your man..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
sometimes i'm told "you've got a deep voice.."

don't judge me by my cover...former teenage punk rock dude here. i have a lot in common with some of you gals who don't look at anyone without a beard and/or know..the "silverlake mountain man" or "williamsburg lumberjack"..(looking at you eastside stylist girls with your etsy stores).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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here is what i've been into lately.. tame impala, deerhunter, townes van zandt, sun kil moon, donald byrd, the damned, destroyer, the fall, aerosmith when they still did hard drugs, T. Rex always etc etc.. movies..hmm..i work in film so i guess i kind of take movies for granted. Just finished an insane history of scientology...i'm an LA native and an old-timey LA history dork. re-reading books partially read in college like 'the age of innocence'....just finished 'the house of mirth'. I don't give a rat's patootie about "Game of Thrones" or "Breaking Bad". "True Detective" though, has won me over. Photography; torbjorn rodland, PL Dicorcia. just saw mike kelley at moca and calder at lacma. i need to see the larry sultan retro at lacma..
would like to find this:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
oh jeez..unlike 99% of okc users i can do without my iphone. gone without things before and it didn't kill me..but these things float my boat

feminine affection..the arts-photography/painting/music/architecture/etc...pineapple...decent reading material..comedy...cruising around with a close friend..physical activity of some kind (i love my workouts..they keep me reasonably sane)...gluten
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
do people ever check their quotes before posting them on social media? somewhat certain oscar wilde never said "be yourself. everyone else is taken" (a popular one on dating sites)...this sentiment sounds way more 21st century america than victorian england. on the other hand i'm pretty sure bernard shaw said "gas, grass or ass. no one rides for free"..

decadence and anarchy...

how a lot of women here still seem freaked out by interracial dating
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
gettin' turnt up

lately watching bill maher after getting home from a long work day, not so much for maher himself but for his guests..i tend to leave the weekend nights for the 9 to 5ers but i'll go out if the going is good..i tend to like the spontaneous over pre-planned activities..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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1. i never write "LOL", "SMH" etc
2. not a fan of "woo-woo" or "woo science." meaning i'm not so much into heavy LA new-agey burning man spiritualist my experience w/people like this it often seems to be a cover for narcissism and insane self-regard bordering on arrogance...(i'm describing a particular type...not all people who are spiritually inclined..i respect true spiritual practice)..
3. i don't surf or reference "the universe" or use the word "blessed" all the maybe i seem unsympathetic somehow. not person i'm a doll.
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