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barrantes1983

29 / M / Straight / Single

Bremerton, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:13pm
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I grew up all over the southeast, but I consider Miami Florida to be home because I was born there and all my family lives there. I joined the Navy about 8 years ago. I'm happy with my choice given the experiences I never would have had otherwise, but I'm not the type that's going to go on and on or brag about my service. I should however mention I will be deploying to Afghanistan in late September. It's important to consider if you're looking for a relationship with me as I will be gone for 8-9 months and upon my return I should be headed to Brazil for the World Cup for about a month. What else? I'm single, never married, and no kids. I've always felt that I just haven't met the right girl. I think that if I were ever in love I still would be. I am by all means open to a relationship, but I do insist on taking things slow. I also want to increase the size of my social circle so making new friends would be my primary goal on this site given that I will be gone for a while in the near future. While I have mostly dated blondes, I feel like I won't be truly and wholly happy unless I am with a brunette, especially one who has a latin background. They are my weakness. I'm definitely a soccer nut. Hated it as a kid and then started coming around about 5 years ago while on my first deployment to Iraq. I don't need you to love soccer like me, but I would need you to accept if not support it. ;-) If you are so inclined, I have two season tickets to the Sounders and am always looking for someone to take my extra. I finally decided to get off my (then) fat, lazy ass and have been doing the Insanity work out since early May. I'm proud to say that I am 12-15 lbs lighter now than I was in any of my current pictures. My abs are almost where they were 5 years ago. As proud as I am of my progress, I'm not posting a shirtless bathroom selfie. I'm not THAT guy. Ask for it and it's yours.

The last girl I dated would often ask me what my flaws were. I'm no where near perfect and I don't aim to be. I'm also not looking for someone perfect, just perfect for me. It doesn't take a flawed person to appreciate your flaws. I'm looking for someone who is confident, classy, smart, and sexy. I want a partner who is my equal, my friend. I always feel like saying, "I don't like drama" is a sign of someone who often finds it or vice versa. Instead, I am looking for someone who appreciates peace and actively seeks it. I favor comfort(with passion and dedication) over excitement in a relationship. It's not exactly a secret, I am a hopeless romantic. I want to find someone who wants and appreciates it.

OH! And one more minor detail... I live in Bremerton, but I try to get over to Seattle as often as possible. Twice a week at the minimum. If you live there and think I am too long distance, be my excuse to come over more often. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Livin it. Saving up to buy a house someday, aprendizagem do Português, and thinking of making a HUGE investment in a mountain bike and doing that. I started doing Insanity in early June and have seen some fantastic results, but I don't want to be 'that guy' who posts shirtless pics on here. 12 lbs lost and counting... For fun I like to go to Sounders games or take walks around Seattle and explore a little. Game nights and dive bars a surefire way to have a good night too. In the cooler months I love to go snowboarding at Crystal mountain.
I’m really good at
Being on time. It baffles me that so many people suck at this simple task!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Great Gatsby, The Alchemist, The Giver
Movies/TV: THE NEW GIRL(more for Schmidt and Cece than Jess), DOCTOR WHO, Community, Game of Thrones, Tapped, Wuthering Heights(the UK version with Tom Harding), 500 Days of Summer, Green Street Hooligans, V for Vendetta, The Constant Gardener, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Vanilla Sky, Inglorious Basterds, The Graduate, Across the Universe, The Godfather, Garden State, Gladiator, Star Wars, Californication, Breaking Bad, Shameless, Modern Family, Big Fish, Arrested Development
Music: Bon Iver, Gotye, Coldplay, The Temper Trap, Kings of Leon, Kid Cudi, Jay-Z, The Smiths, Common, Jack Johnson, Harry Connick Jr, Eddie Veder, DMB, Alexi Murdoch, M83, Nick Drake, Matt & Kim, (SAMBA), Mumford & Sons, The White Stripes, John Mayer, Ray LaMontagne, Sufjan Stevens, Tears for Fears, Sigur Ros, Radiohead, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros and Imogen Heap.
The six things I could never do without
After food, shelter, and clothing?

1) Love
2) Passion
3) Peace
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I've been thinking a lot about lucid dreams and the bigthink youtube channel. Jason Silva and Neil DeGrasse Tyson always leave me full of awe and inspiration.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe going out early, but sleeping at a reasonable hour. I play soccer in Port Orchard on Saturday mornings and if there's a game, hop on the ferry to Seattle.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't trust people who don't post clear pictures of themselves.

Wanna post art? Post it to Instagram or Pinterest, maybe even Imgur(LOVE that site).

Not proud of your body? Consider this-if you want to find someone who loves you for you, you're going to have to let them see YOU.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
You should not message me if you are married(poly) or if at any point in your life you were a man. I know that makes me awfully 'vanilla'. I'm not judging and I respect your choice to do what makes you happy, but it's just not for me.

You should message me if you have the intention of someday meeting me. If you're local, meet me sooner rather than later. Otherwise what's the point?