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bartenderboy

32 M Columbia, MO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 8, 2010
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Jacked
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So OKCupid tells me I'm the "Boy Next Door" which is freakily accurate (even though it equates to the dreaded "nice guy" moniker) I admit that is what I am. Though I'd like to think I'm that and a little more. Be it a good listener, someone to get up and go, "geek-out" when called for, or fix a mean drink.

From here, I'm supposed to tell you all about my interests and passions in life. All the normal dossier questions one would expect on a first date, but where's the fun in that?

However, how is that fair? What I can offer is that I am forever attracted to art of the lens within photography and film, the zen-like quality of food and cooking, and an incurable internet addiction (face it, your an addict too or you wouldn't be on OKC).

I'm fairly eclectic in all my tastes, movies, music, and women and very passionate about all three. I'm sucker for all things off the beaten path, sometimes indie, often geeky...though I'll try anything once (except a cement mixer - you should know better).

I am pensive, passionate, and preposterous.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still adapting to a new life here in MidMo - three years in, I'm still finding something new about this town every week worth exploring or experiencing - often logging my travels in my expanding portfolio of photography.

When I'm not wondering around various festivals/mu game/concerts or joyriding down route K, I am immersed in my career in web design and photography at mizzou.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Inciting the masses, devising wondrous alcoholic concoctions to then subdue the masses, understanding what a spatula is and how to use it. When paying the bills, typically all things techie and taming the art of the world wide web.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!

My hard chocolate shell and creamy caramel filling....err no.


I don't know... you tell me.

Am I fuzzy?

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
As a self-proclaimed film buff and enthusiast; I like the good, the bad, and the indie.

Garden State, Memento, City of Lost Children, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Donnie Darko, The Professional, Usual Suspects, Se7en, Gattaca, Kill Bill, Amelie.

Scrubs, Community, Doctor Who, Supernatural, Entourage, Dollhouse, Criminal Minds, Grey's Anatomy, Psych, Law & Order, and Battlestar Galatica.

DAMEIRA [aka league], Saxon Shore, Mike Errico, Atomic Mint, Schuyler Fisk, and Videology

From my Facebook Profile:
Books: Dark Tower Series by Stephen King
Black Hawk Down.

Movies: Fifth Element
The Professional (Leon)
Memento
Clerks
Black Hawk Down
Gattaca
Shaun of Dead
Garden State
Office Space
Still Breathing
Requiem for a Dream
Reservoir Dogs
Big Trouble in Little China
Empire Records
Battle Royale
The Returner
Stranger than Fiction.

TV Shows: Supernatural
Scrubs
Firefly
Smallville
Burn Notice
Daily Show
Colbert Report
Battlestar Galactica
Dexter
Dr Horrible

Music: Jimmy Eats World
VAST
Saxon Shore
Modest Mouse
Audioslave
Live
Stabbing Westward
Pearl Jam
Poe
Schuyler Fisk
Interpol
The Postal Service
MUSE
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

Lets skip the basics (internet, food, sex, oxygen) as thats a given.

The essentials include my friends, my cell phone (as my memory sucks when it comes to numbers), a camera, my sanity, and a pocketknife and some duct tape for the MacGuyver moments.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The definition of life....or other profound things, like how did they come up with putting Trivial Pursuit on Pringles chips?! Why I ask you, why?!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

Spending time with good friends in usual fare, be it taking in movie, poker night, or canvassing the bay area for random entertainment. On occasion hosting a party for the masses or at least raking in the tips.


Those are some things I would get back to, for now I spend most nights exploring what the Columbia scene has to offer or squirreled away in my house unpacking boxes.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everything is private until you ask - so go ahead, ask away.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.

If you need someone to listen, a good drink, or open to experiencing something new and taking some initiative.


Old adage still holds true, or if you'd like to show me around town to see what MidMo has to offer.


Yahoo IM: jjsteffe

Full Discloser 11/21/09 - I don't check OKC as much as I use to, so apologies if takes abit to get back.