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bartenderstephen

31 M Cambridge, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'll let past significant others summarize me:

Would date again - A.L.

I left him in better shape than I found him - L.S.

A real catch, ☆☆☆☆☆ - J.S.

Autodidactic, erudite, with a Wildean wit - R.R.

Well trained & handsome, but he didn't want children - F.P

A truly memorable one night stand - Anon

I taught him what D.T.F meant - L.M.

A brute and a gent at just the right times - T.F.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently I'm riding out a pretty cool career in culinary and I'm developing a second career as a designer (I just sold something to someone in Croatia; so crazy!) My prestigious degree in faulty economics inspired me to get a restaurant job. The restaurant job got me into the wine business. An iconoclastic interest in wine got me into culinary theory which got me into writing which opened a lot of doors for really cool collaborations. Proving some of my theories got me into designing equipment which is going somewhere. All of it could take me around the world or maybe back to school.

I'm also on some sort of aesthetic journey. Between now and 40 years from now, I think I'll gradually trade my red wing boots for cowboy boots, my track bike for a touring motorcycle, my urban, fairly cleaned up James Deanish look for nothing but faded denim, grey hair, tattoos, scars, and lots of turquoise & Navajo silver. Living off patent royalties I'll be that guy that learns to weld and turns his property into a yard art museum of salvage based sculpture. I'm gradually growing wilier but not crazier; there is a difference. Granted none of this should be a concern if you are only up for short term dating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting the dots and getting things done. Criticizing the government. Complimenting artists. Loving lots of music. Knowing where to get the best of everything to eat and eating it. Getting around because I teleport with my bike or take the motorcycle. Being pleasantly ridiculous.

"What I like about you," she said, "is the serious way you make up nonsense." - GM
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall with blue eyes. I rock the bearded, lumberjack, bike messenger style. My uncommon vitality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Chandler's The Big Sleep, short stories of Garcia Marquez. I accumulate large piles of non fiction. I go to matinees constantly. Zuzu, Wally's, the Plough & Stars. Lead Belly, Bo Diddley, R.L. Burnside, the Gun Club, the kinks, the Cramps, Tribe Called Quest, Pete Rock & C.L. Smooth. I eat out constantly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a woman
a job worth doing
my track bike and/or motorcycle
red wings or havaianas
rosé or I.P.A.
beach towel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
carburetors & spark plugs, non linguistic thought, grounded cross-modal metaphors, the categorization of aromas, creative linkage strategies, the relationship of art to games to the objective scientific method, super normal stimuli, nth degree abstraction, the rhetoric of art, anxiety, complacency, cementing memories, retrieving memories, omelets, avocados, bacon.

Accurately representing myself but standing out so I can escape this rock with a total babe that I can be good to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday is a movable feast. My Friday is not Friday but on my Friday I'm out for drinks, out for food, out for a bike ride. I prefer the live music on Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday. I like doing something new on Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Under my semi-gruff exterior there is definitely a romantic and an optimist?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you have character and can handle a character. If you are mischievous, just plain curious or like to embrace the delicious trial and error of it all.