I'm also a poor man's pianist and a single father. My daughter is everything.
My ideal match is female. One must have standards, after all. I like lists. In descending order of importance, you are:
1. Honest (this also implies faithful)
2. Kind (you truly believe that every human being is worth a damn)
3. Intelligent (there are a number of ways to meet this criterion)
4. Appreciative of dry wit (otherwise you won't appreciate me)
5. Hopeful (at least on your good days)
Perhaps you are also insanely, profoundly, undeniably, over-indulgently, exorbitantly fond of adverbs.