Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In a long term relationship with a partner who happens to be
thousands of miles away for the summer. But I like sharing
closeness with people, so I'm looking for that while my primary
partner is away.
I get along very well with people who are technically minded (a
physics math chemistry engineering type). People who want to fix
I don't drink, and derive more enjoyment from hanging with people
who do same, but this is totally not a requirement. I also have
great times with ravers.
I like talking with people in technical, political, and
philosophical realms. Let's talk about books you've read on queer
theory, or economics, or non-pop-sci science.
I'm in favor of discarding traditions in favor of less limitations
I like riding bikes at night.
I like playing games
of the board and card varieties.
I'm a touchy feely cuddle-type.
I am inquisitive
, and happy-go-lucky
I am also vegan
intolerant of mysticism
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a tutor. I teach people how to think more clearly. I love
watching people's faces as they dunk their head in the bucket of
The best thing about it is that revelations tend to come in
I also work on learning new things, whether I can tutor them or
not. Lemme know if there's anything out there you wanna help me
I'm doing stuff. I'm going to the bouldering gym or going
backpacking or hiking or contra dancing. Take me someplace, tell me
an idea of what you want to do.
Point is, help me make every day an adventure with many things to
Also I don't drink or do drugs. It's fine if you do, but it's extra
points if you don't.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to help clarify things in life. I like the fluidity of
choosing when exhibit my rational side, but I also enjoy nonsense.
I feel like I'm good at finding a comfortable spot to be at and
letting my mood fit a spot on the aforementioned spectrum.
I feel like I have a reliably good temperament. When thing turn bad
all around me (not common), my response involves figuring out a
reasonable course of action and working towards ameliorating the
I strive to be a clear communicator, and am working on my
I strongly seek people who can help me become more than I currently
am; those who can offer insights and help me expand.
I do outdoor things occasionally, and have done more than 40 hours
of each of the following: skiing, skating, biking, rock climbing,
fixing bikes, hiking, kayaking, and canoeing. I tend to catch on
quick to new activities.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get a lot of confused looks at first. I don't like rules I find
unimportant. I do like openness, communication, and trust.
I am a touch slut and a cuddle bear. I like hugs and head rubs and
the like. It's really exciting to be cuddly with new people. It's
really comforting to be cuddly with friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A friend once told me "the purpose of art is to shed light the
human plight." But from my interpretation of this, I feel like some
pretty technical books meet the art requirements. Anyways, here's
some buzzword soup:
Potter and the Methods of Rationality
, A People's
History of the United States
, Noam Chomsky
, Naomi Klein
These probably fit the definition of art much less, yet I still
found meaning in these author and works:
, Jonathan Strange and
's Foundation Trilogy
, Neal Stephenson
When I watch movies (not often) or TV (a rarity), I most look for
new ideas and connections between ideas. Miyazaki
's The Wind Rises
fit me, likewise
the TV show Black
I am not interested in most movies labelled "comedy", or any TV
show with a laugh track.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Understanding intent versus literalness
- Other great minds around me
- Learning more, from you, from books, and from my mistakes
- A smile that says, 'I see what you did there'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A sample of things I think about might be:
, societal roles
, function of governance and
government, finding meaning without creating artificial meaning,
, how to bias my
wording on OkCupid such that I automatically deal with the Dunning Kruger Effect
I'm interested in all manner of life's puzzling questions, and can
sometimes find answers.
What generic systems of thought let people find self-consistent
truth without being stuck in logical fallacy? How can we help
ourselves and one another escape our fallacies?
How to beat people in board games.
Below isn't something i think on often, but it's interesting and
also the kind of thing I'd like people to show me if they come
across. Here are the sounds of the Southern Ocean
. I think they're
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Boring question. New question:
What's your favorite piece of internet?
Long term favorites have been
Tim Minchin's Storm
The Greatest Speech Ever Made
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My phone has about 3 days of audiobooks/podcasts on it and about an
hour of music.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You're searching for someone to spend some time with.
- You can't stop thinking.
- You think you know how I might improve myself.
- You want to become better at thinking, and might be able to teach
me how to do so too.
- You fulfill some part of my ideal partner list at the top.
- You wanna take me to a secret hideout, be it on a picnic under a
bridge or the top of the tallest building in the city.
Who are you looking for?
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