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30 El Cerrito, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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Straight, Sapiosexual
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Graduated from space camp
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly), LISP (Okay), C++ (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Long profile.... so here's the 30,000 ft view.

I'm from the Bay Area, and I totally love it here.

I'm frequently listening and observing rather than talking. Once you get to know me a bit more you'll know that I love to talk and share things. I'm pretty intense under the surface, but I don't like to overwhelm people.

What I like/want in a partner:
Someone who has a strong drive to do their own thing!
Can be fun and exciting but also mellow and cuddly.
Undeniable physical attraction.
Someone who I would always want to have around my good friends.
Someone to compliment and support my strengths, and someone who I can also do the same for.

Turn-ons: Positivity, independence, uniqueness, intelligence, gratitude, good healthy communication, and long hair ;-)

Turn-offs: Negativity, superficiality, impulsivity, typical stuff like petty drama, and one-dimensionality.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a musician, I play bass in a progressive rock / punk band with the guys in my pictures.

I like getting out in the fresh air, away from computers and such on my time off. Getting exercise which includes pick-up ultimate frisbee, yoga, and hikes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My random list:
Listening to people.
Talking to people.
Enjoying and creating music.
Being loyal to friends.

Also, known positive Scorpio traits:
Not easily fooled.
Passionate when the heart is involved.
Makes time for themselves.
Has a quiet, subtle power.
Doesn't give up easily.
Good at things that require deep thought and understanding.
Loves hard and has a good heart!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think this depends entirely on the person, but just guessing, I'd go with hair or eyes. Or that I'm the one playing bass.

I'm Italian and Irish, so by my looks people guess I'm Jewish, or Middle-Eastern. I recently heard there may very well be some Jewish in my ancestry as well, unconfirmed, but I guess that may explain why people tend to guess that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently playing punk/progressive rock, my band I was with 2010-2013 I have rejoined again this year. When I begin writing, I'm going to do a collaboration project with some other musicians that will borrow from punk, post-rock, and experimental, and in the end its yet to be determined what it will eventually sound like. I'm giving myself a long time to come up with new material and see what it turns into. Future project will most likely be my own collab group with some friends and/or and INXS cover project!

As far as listening, and enjoying, I'm a musician at heart for all music, and of course I like things that are close to my influences. I like variety, creativity, and lots of bass, :-D it just has to be good I guess. I can't enjoy myself very well in a typical "club" setting, the beats are boring, and I find I have to force myself to dance, since the music itself doesn't really do it for me anymore, unless they play classic pop or r&b that still had some soul left in it.

other topics, just ask
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Keys, wallet, phone, check!

Other than that, my instrument, real friends (the ones you see in person, not just on FB!) And by the way I have amazingly talented and creative friends! Just thought I'd mention that cause it makes me happy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music occupies my mind a lot, and pretty much everything that I come across I think about deeply.

How am I supposed to fit the rest of my life into 2 days on the weekend?? Nonsense!

If your screen name is a song title, I'm singing it immediately.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing a show, or going to a show are two very likely possibilities. Fridays are usually low-energy though, cause the week is rough. Lets do something Saturday! :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A lot! I know myself really well, so if asked I can pretty well give you the true story. I have many sides, and many facets of interest, I could never fit them all in this profile!

My gifts are shared with those I care for, trust, and those who show a genuine interest. When I love, I love hard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're looking for a really great person who's wildly intelligent, who would value a strong connection in the same.

You are up for meeting sooner rather than later. I'm not opposed to a little time to chat first, but the interesting stuff happens in person.

If we match in the 90's (or even the high or mid 80's) its probably a good idea. ;)

If you think I'm sexy and you actually DO want the shirtless bathroom selfie, please inquire. :-P

If it weren't for social etiquette, I'd be asking pretty deep questions RIGHT off the bat, but since we don't know each other (yet), I'll lead in with something a little more benign. Just looking to see if you'll play along.