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31 El Cerrito, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:45am
Straight, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Buddhism and it’s important
Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), LISP (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Long profile... I have many sides, and many facets of interest, I could never fit them all in this profile! So here's the 30,000 ft view.

Best way to describe me, a modern-day renaissance man. Wide array of interests and skills: music, philosophy, technology, religion/spirituality, psychology, and how all those things combine.

I'm from the Bay Area, and I totally love it here. I am here in this life to enjoy whatever comes.

Personality wise, an introvert at heart with learned extrovert traits needed to survive. I'm often observing and listening instead of talking. If you begin getting on a topic I like I will easily become excited and talkative, bordering on inability to control my inside voice. Scorpio Sun and Moon, Cancer rising if that means anything to you.

Positivity, independence, uniqueness, intelligence, gratitude, good healthy communication, and long hair ;-)

Extra special bonus stars if you are musical, and/or also would be into home-made food and health products, like toothpaste, soap, brewing kombucha, or growing your own herbs and veggies at home. Because they're fun productive things I'd like to do together.

Negativity, superficiality, impulsivity, typical stuff like petty drama, and one-dimensionality.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a musician, I play bass in a progressive rock / punk band with the guys in my pictures. If you like music, you can bet I want to share stuff I like with you and hear what you're into.

I like getting out in the fresh air, away from computers and such on my time off. Getting exercise which includes pick-up ultimate frisbee, yoga, and hikes.

I love a good life hack. You could call me a hacker of life :) If I can find a way to improve my quality of life easily and repeatedly with some simple technique THAT WORKS I'll try it. Nutrition, exercise, mental clarity, more productivity, and stress reduction and rest too, all can be hacked! Good conversation topic, ask me about a life hack, or tell me about one of yours!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My random list:
Listening to people.
Talking to people.
Enjoying and creating music.
Being loyal to friends.

Also, known positive Scorpio traits:
Not easily fooled.
Passionate when the heart is involved.
Makes time for themselves.
Has a quiet, subtle power.
Doesn't give up easily.
Good at things that require deep thought and understanding.
Loves hard and has a good heart!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think this depends entirely on the person, but just guessing, I'd go with hair or eyes. Or that I'm the one playing bass.

I'm Italian and Irish, so by my looks people guess I'm Jewish, or Middle-Eastern. I recently heard there may very well be some Jewish in my ancestry as well, unconfirmed, but I guess that may explain why people tend to guess that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently playing punk/progressive rock, my band I was with 2010-2013 I have rejoined again this year, for a limited time. Future project will most likely be my own collab group with some friends. I'm giving myself a long time to come up with new material and see what it turns into.

As far as listening, and enjoying, I'm a musician at heart for all music, and of course I like things that are close to my influences. I like variety, creativity, and lots of bass, :-D it just has to be good I guess. I like cherry-picking music from profiles here to listen to.

other topics, just ask
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Keys, wallet, phone, check!

Other than that, my instrument, real friends (the ones you see in person, not just on FB!) And by the way I have amazingly talented and creative friends! Just thought I'd mention that cause it makes me happy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think deeply, slow thinkers keep right! Seriously, I do need someone who is very mentally stimulating. Someone I can express my mind to.

Music occupies my mind a lot.

How to not think TOO much, gotta know when to give it a rest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing a show, or going to a show, or something completely different. There are so many possibilities!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A lot! I know myself really well, and if I know you a bit I am an open book, so if asked I will not hold back.

My gifts are shared with those I care for, trust, and those who show a genuine interest. When I love, I love hard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If we match in the 90's (or even the high or mid 80's) its probably a good idea. ;)

If you think I'm sexy and you actually DO want the shirtless bathroom selfie, please inquire. :-P (lol no takers yet)

Other water signs encouraged, Aquariuses, Tauruses or Virgos too.

What I like/want in a partner:
Someone who has a strong drive to do their own thing!
Can be fun and exciting but also mellow and cuddly.
Undeniable physical attraction.
Someone who I would always want to have around my good friends.
Someone to compliment and support my strengths, and someone who I can also do the same for.

If it weren't for social etiquette, I'd be asking pretty deep questions RIGHT off the bat, but since we don't know each other (yet), I'll lead in with something a little more benign. Just looking to see if you'll play along.

Things you'd (hopefully) understand: