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29 • Brooklyn, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–33
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 7:58am
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
I'm a recording engineer, as well as a lifelong musician (a bassist). Aside from my skills in the classical and jazz genres, I am also an avid metalhead. I like to find ways to play all three genres at the same time.
I'm originally from Virginia, but I'm not a southern guy, aside from my taste in food and my relative intolerance for cold water at the beach.
I'm an ISFJ, with extroverted tendencies in the right situations and environments. Also not a pushover, and can handle most criticism and weirdness that comes my way.
I am witty, genuine, and random
I have a Bachelors of Music in Double Bass Performance and a minor in Jazz Studies from Christopher Newport University. I'm currently finishing my Master of Music in Music Technology at NYU.
I'm also trying my hand at being a video game streamer. I like having a legitimate reason to play games regularly!
I have somewhat of a goofy laugh. It was described to me once as "...the most simultaneously genuine and fake belly laugh ever."
Books: Wuthering Heights, Grapes of Wrath, Outliers. I need to read more often.
Music: Mostly everything - no modern pop or contemporary christian, some country is good - Dream Theater, Periphery, Mudvayne, Vertical Horizon, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Jaco Pastorius, Dave Holland, Charles Mingus, Christian McBride, and Dave Brubeck.
Food: Natural citrus/berries and citrus/berry-flavored foods, chocolate, sushi, cheese. I have a particular fondness for Italian, Mexican, and Asian cuisine.
Recording gear/microphones (this includes a computer)
Family, friends, and the good times they bring.
A camera (still or video)
Lip balm (I have dry skin, so this is a must have)
I enjoy watching/listening to ASMR videos on YouTube.
To paraphrase a bit from the writer Sarah Jones (and because I very much agree): I want a woman who is smart, strong, and is their own person - who has dignity and won't give it all away. I want a woman who values self-containment, self-reliance, and self-empowerment. Beyond the physical, THIS is what I consider sexy.
I'm also looking for someone who knows where they're going in life and how to get there (if you aren't already there), who doesn't play games, and has a great sense of humor. If you are caring, compassionate, non-judgmental, geeky/nerdy (a big plus, but not required), and looking to be with someone who is also trying to make sense of this crazy world we live in, while doing so with a big heart and an open mind, you're just the person I'd love to get to know.
If you are a person who can think of nothing better to do on a day off than to sit at the beach, play guitar, and hang out with your friends.
If you're still reading, would like to know more, and/or meet up sometime, the send button won't push itself. :-)
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