Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello! I'm Nick. Nice to make your digital acquaintance. :-)
I'm a recording engineer, as well as a lifelong musician (a
bassist). Aside from my skills in the classical and jazz genres, I
am also an avid metalhead. I like to find ways to play all three
genres at the same time.
I'm an unabashed nerd, in a variety of ways, and I definitely
embrace that side of myself. Feeding my thirst for knowledge is
something that is very important to me. However, I sometimes find
myself reading about random things, instead of reading what I
should be reading. It can be annoying, but usually ends up being
I'm a textbook empath, aside from the fact that I am usually not
sensitive to little things, and remain composed for the big things.
I'm the most extroverted introvert you'll ever meet, and I've found
the right balance of the two.
I am a tried-and-true philomath. Coincidentally, philomath is also
one of my favorite words.
I'm a passionate person, and I very much enjoy talking about and
sharing the things I find fascinating or exciting with others. I
likely will do just that on a first date. It's how I get
comfortable with someone I'm first meeting, and how I generally
bond with the people I care about. I'm just as interested to hear
about your passions, and share that excitement with you. If that
sounds boring, or uninteresting to you, then I wish you the best of
I'm originally from Virginia, but I'm not a southern guy, aside
from my taste in food, and my relative intolerance for cold water
at the beach.
I'm an ISFJ, right on the line with I and E, with extroverted
tendencies in the right situations and environments. Also not a
pushover, and can handle most criticism and weirdness that comes my
I am witty, genuine, and random
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working as an A/V Tech for Resorts World Casino in
Queens, doing live sound and other assorted tech work. Eventually,
I hope to teach music/recording arts at the university level, work
in film/tv/video game production, and/or be the sound engineer for
a major venue or theater. I'm hoping that, if I play my cards
right, I can achieve at least one of these in the next five
I have a Bachelors of Music in Double Bass Performance and a minor
in Jazz Studies from Christopher Newport University. I'm currently
finishing my Master of Music in Music Technology at NYU.
I'm also trying my hand at being a video game streamer. I like
having a legitimate reason to play games regularly!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
, video post-production, computers,
photography, random/useless trivia. I plan my spontaneity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...or so people tell me, my eyes. They're hazel/green in the colder
months, and bright green in the warmer months.
I have somewhat of a goofy laugh. It was described to me once as
"...the most simultaneously genuine and fake belly laugh ever."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: original Star Trek movies (1-4; 6-10), Three Stooges, Marx
Brothers, Jackass (all), Training Day, Baseketball, Indiana Jones
(except Crystal Skull), Braveheart, The Patriot, Road House,
National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation
Books: The Martian, Outliers, cheesy action novels, Wuthering
Heights, Grapes of Wrath. I need to read more often.
Music: Mostly everything - no modern pop or contemporary christian,
some country is good - Dream Theater, Periphery, Mudvayne, Vertical
Horizon, The Reign of Kindo, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Jaco Pastorius,
Dave Holland, Charles Mingus, Christian McBride, and Dave
Food: Natural citrus/berries and citrus/berry-flavored foods,
chocolate, sushi, cheese. I have a particular fondness for Italian,
Mexican, and Asian cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Contacts/glasses (I'm blind without them).
Recording gear/microphones (this includes a computer)
Family, friends, and the good times they bring.
A camera (still or video)
Lip balm (I have dry skin, so this is a must have)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, science, technology, my future, video games, money,
bettering myself, funny/random stuff
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, typically. 'Tis part and parcel of the audio industry.
Though, if I'm not working, you can typically find me watching my
favorite streamers on Twitch.tv, on Netflix, working on my own
music projects, or having a beverage with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a sucker for blue and/or green eyes, and freckles.
I enjoy watching/listening to ASMR eating/drinking videos on
Sex/kink, and body positive. GGG. Feel free to ask about those.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a girl who reads:
To paraphrase a bit from the writer Sarah Jones (and because I very
much agree): I want a woman who is smart, strong, and is their own
person - who has dignity and won't give it all away. I want a woman
who values self-containment, self-reliance, and self-empowerment.
Beyond the physical, THIS is what I consider sexy.
Your baggage meets airline size requirements.
You're intelligent, emotionally mature, honest, kind, genuine,
open-minded, and know what you want. Nerdy/geeky is a big
Some great advice, on dating, and life in general.
If you're still reading, would like to know more, and/or meet up
sometime, the send button won't push itself. :-)
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