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  • Ages 25-34
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Nov 23
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello! I'm Nick. Nice to make your digital acquaintance. :-)

I'm a recording engineer, as well as a lifelong musician (a bassist). Aside from my skills in the classical and jazz genres, I am also an avid metalhead. I like to find ways to play all three genres at the same time.

I'm an unabashed nerd, in a variety of ways, and I definitely embrace that side of myself. Feeding my thirst for knowledge is something that is very important to me. However, I sometimes find myself reading about random things, instead of reading what I should be reading. It can be annoying, but usually ends up being fun.

I'm a textbook empath, aside from the fact that I am usually not sensitive to little things, and remain composed for the big things. I'm the most extroverted introvert you'll ever meet, and I've found the right balance of the two.

I am a tried-and-true philomath. Coincidentally, philomath is also one of my favorite words.

I'm a passionate person, and I very much enjoy talking about and sharing the things I find fascinating or exciting with others. I likely will do just that on a first date. It's how I get comfortable with someone I'm first meeting, and how I generally bond with the people I care about. I'm just as interested to hear about your passions, and share that excitement with you. If that sounds boring, or uninteresting to you, then I wish you the best of luck.

I'm originally from Virginia, but I'm not a southern guy, aside from my taste in food, and my relative intolerance for cold water at the beach.

I'm an ISFJ, right on the line with I and E, with extroverted tendencies in the right situations and environments. Also not a pushover, and can handle most criticism and weirdness that comes my way.

I am witty, genuine, and random
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently working as an A/V Tech for Resorts World Casino in Queens, doing live sound and other assorted tech work. Eventually, I hope to teach music/recording arts at the university level, work in film/tv/video game production, and/or be the sound engineer for a major venue or theater. I'm hoping that, if I play my cards right, I can achieve at least one of these in the next five years.

I have a Bachelors of Music in Double Bass Performance and a minor in Jazz Studies from Christopher Newport University. I'm currently finishing my Master of Music in Music Technology at NYU.

I'm also trying my hand at being a video game streamer. I like having a legitimate reason to play games regularly!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Performing/writing/arranging/recording music, video post-production, computers, photography, random/useless trivia. I plan my spontaneity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...or so people tell me, my eyes. They're hazel/green in the colder months, and bright green in the warmer months.

I have somewhat of a goofy laugh. It was described to me once as "...the most simultaneously genuine and fake belly laugh ever."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: original Star Trek movies (1-4; 6-10), Three Stooges, Marx Brothers, Jackass (all), Training Day, Baseketball, Indiana Jones (except Crystal Skull), Braveheart, The Patriot, Road House, National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation

Books: The Martian, Outliers, cheesy action novels, Wuthering Heights, Grapes of Wrath. I need to read more often.

Music: Mostly everything - no modern pop or contemporary christian, some country is good - Dream Theater, Periphery, Mudvayne, Vertical Horizon, The Reign of Kindo, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Jaco Pastorius, Dave Holland, Charles Mingus, Christian McBride, and Dave Brubeck.

Food: Natural citrus/berries and citrus/berry-flavored foods, chocolate, sushi, cheese. I have a particular fondness for Italian, Mexican, and Asian cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Contacts/glasses (I'm blind without them).
My basses/guitars/drums
Recording gear/microphones (this includes a computer)
Family, friends, and the good times they bring.
A camera (still or video)
Lip balm (I have dry skin, so this is a must have)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, science, technology, my future, video games, money, bettering myself, funny/random stuff
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, typically. 'Tis part and parcel of the audio industry. Though, if I'm not working, you can typically find me watching my favorite streamers on, on Netflix, working on my own music projects, or having a beverage with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a sucker for blue and/or green eyes, and freckles.

I enjoy watching/listening to ASMR eating/drinking videos on YouTube.

Sex/kink, and body positive. GGG. Feel free to ask about those.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a girl who reads:

To paraphrase a bit from the writer Sarah Jones (and because I very much agree): I want a woman who is smart, strong, and is their own person - who has dignity and won't give it all away. I want a woman who values self-containment, self-reliance, and self-empowerment. Beyond the physical, THIS is what I consider sexy.

Your baggage meets airline size requirements.

You're intelligent, emotionally mature, honest, kind, genuine, open-minded, and know what you want. Nerdy/geeky is a big plus.

Some great advice, on dating, and life in general.

If you're still reading, would like to know more, and/or meet up sometime, the send button won't push itself. :-)