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41 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:10pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I would say that I am a mellow guy with a wide range of interests and aspirations. I have a relatively small and tight knit group of friends and family. I am not sunshine 24/7, but have a heart of gold and a genuine silly streak underneath the occasionally surly veneer.
What I’m doing with my life
By day I am an IT support tech for a local school district. I am a an active drummer. I enjoy working on original material and playing some classic covers on occasion. Music is a big part of my life and enjoy playing out live in my band and going to check out local and major acts when they make it through the area. Maybe we could go check out a show sometime.
I’m really good at
Drums - playing / restoring equipment
Cooking Breakfast
Identifying random songs just by the first chord
Sketching strange heads on the margins of my meeting notes
Pub Trivia
Caring for my cat Buddy
The first things people usually notice about me
The smooth contour of my bald head. Well the most obvious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Currently reading The Snow Leopard, and an HG Wells anthology. I have recently enjoyed Commando- the Johnny Ramone autobiography and One River and Into the Silence by Wade Davis

Music; Classical to Punk Rock. Here are a few of the artists/bands that I listen to on a regular basis.

Los Straitjackets, the Ventures, Link Wray
Simon and Garfunkel
50's and 60's: Dion and the Belmonts, Elvis
Buddy Holly, Carl Perkins
Hank Williams Sr. Johnny Cash,
Classic Rock: Led Zeppelin, Cream, Who, Yardbirds, the Hollies,
Yacht Rock - Doobie Bros, Michael McDonald, Steely Dan
80's; the Cure, the Smiths, Echo and the Bunnymen, Ministry, Psychedelic Furs, INXS, Jesus and Marychain, Sisters of Mercy
Bach, Handel,Mozart, Brahms, Schubert


Beware of Mr. Baker, A Band called Death, The Future is Unwritten Batman trilogy, Marvel movies ( Avengers, Thor, Captain America, the Wolverine), Werner Herzog's Happy People and cave of Forgotten Dreams, The Buddha (PBS). Empire Strikes Back, Star Trek 2 Wrath of Kahn, Predator, Total recall (the original, not the drivel they pawned off as a remake), Easy Money, Stripes, Caddyshack, Spies like us, Yojimbo, Hidden fortress, Gojira, Pacific Rim.

TV: Jeopardy, Breaking bad, Eastbound and Down, Agents of SHIELD, Game of thrones, Orange is the new black, Battlestar Galactica (Lorne Greene and Edward James Olmos) and Homeland
The six things I could never do without
Six is too limiting. family, friends, integrity, music, art, love, drums, bicycle, a trusty pet sidekick
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I need to get outside more often and check out some of the awesome state and local parks in the area. This is my early new years resolution.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately I have been practicing on Friday. Sometimes I just opt to chill out after a long week in the office.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I haven't given up on the prospect of meeting an awesome woman on this site.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are up for some positive interactions and witty repartee drop me a line. Take it easy.