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27 Philadelphia, PA Woman, Genderqueer

Woman, Genderqueer

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:54am
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some words: queer, biracial, feminist, genderqueer, direct communicator, empathetic, enthusiastic, independent, solar-powered. I'm an optimistic outgoing introvert.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Some things I like to do: dance like I MEAN it, care for my furry and amphibian pets, flex my femme muscle, run/exercise, home improvement (do, not watch but <3JTT), hang with my family, kitchen experiments, harmonize/make music, make furniture, self-care and self-love to the max.

For money I do home repair and weatherization with Habitat for Humanity.
(if you want to dweeb out on construction talk, please lets. green construction?? holy moly, i'ma drool all over you)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Showing genuine appreciation for people and things. Also getting really, really excited about most anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Visually, the curly fauxhawk mullet on my head. Aurally, active listener and that I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Few of each:
Book: Stone Butch Blues - Leslie Feinberg, When Things Fall Apart - Pema Chodron
Movie: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Finding Nemo
Show: Buffy
Podcast: The Moth, Professor Blastoff, The Heart
Music: Ani Difranco, mix cds from friends/lovers
Food: Gluten free, dairy free creativity
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family (all of those with whom I share love), green foods, my sense of smell, self-care, the sun, purpose.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How things work, my next carpentry project, food science, gender, new ways to challenge myself to grow, creative ways to be outside/exercise, kindness among strangers, how empathy impacts allyship but mostly how to shutup and listen, how positivity and goofiness can make most anything enjoyable. Lately: sex and how single people make that happen in the wintertime (how??).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully dancing my boots off with a bunch of queers. Or going to bed at 930.
You should message me if
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You want to hang outside (yes, even in the cold!)
You know a thing or 20 about self-care and self-love
Perhaps you're into dweebs/nerds/people that are passionate about things
Maybe you're even super aware and communicative about your needs and boundaries (drool) and respect the shit out of other peoples
You're all like: comfort zone?? heck no, challenge me
Then on top of it all, you want to talk about the state of our world and how we can make it a better place

Yeah, let's hang about it.

Also, I'm dating a few folks at the moment and not into monogamy at this time. I'm always looking for friends too!