I'm silly at times and stoic at others. I think intelligence is sexy and love giving it as much as I receive it.
I'm an Australian, and I moved the Bay Area in July 2013. I came to join an awesome circle of friends and to change employers. At the start of 2013 I basically decided to turn my whole world upside down.
I'm also part of a long-term loving poly relationship. She's awesome, she knows I'm having adventures on my own. She's disabled her account temporarily due to some haters who told her that OkC is for non-married people only. Sheesh. If you think that as well, well .. tough luck.
I'm looking for like-minded people interested ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. I'm looking for some adventure and trouble with new people.
I'm a kinkster and after living this part of my life privately in my 20's, I slowly came out of my shell in the Sydney club scene. I'm hoping to continue this in the Bay Area.
Sometimes I take myself far too seriously and I can be intense. But I'm also the master of self-reflection and self-improvement. I'm getting better.