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baybinabox

59 M Grand Rapids, MI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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looking to meet a lady with charm, witty, who is jazzy, and intelligent.

I want to share my life to provide for her and help her meet her needs to make her life happy. I'm the kind of guy who is patient, gentle, passionate, and ready to please.

I occasionally eat Mexican, Chinese, Italian, and soul food and willing to expand my knowledge of new foods. I enjoy movies science fiction, dramas, and mysteries, thrillers, concert, plays like the (Taming of the shrew) by Shakespeare is my favorite play. Some of my television shows are Fraser, Jerry Seinfeld, Bonanza, two and half men, C.S.I, leverage, Bones, and law and order kind of guy.

I would like to try some new activity in my life like jumping out of a air plane, camping in a national park, panning for gold in Alaska, take a elevator to the top of the Eiffel Tower with the woman I love.

I'm a pushover for a woman with an accent. A woman who has a smile that can charm a cobra but down to earth, who is sophisticated, and young at heart. She has an inquisitive mindset, funny, and smell of a new beauty every day.

Life lessons have matured me to be loyal, trustworthy, sensitive, confident and humble to love someone without the jealousies and insecurities in a relationship. I understand that one must be their self to be happy and I am not here to change no one and no one to change me. But as a couple we can grow into one.

I know how to compromise in being a 21st century man and I'm not intimidated by a woman's intelligence, independence, or profession. I know what I want and that is to love my wife to be like there is no tomorrow and for her to love me for the simple man that I am.

I do not like to argue and be angry life is too short. I prefer to communicate and talk things out and I know how to admit when I'm wrong and if I do not know something I would ask for her help. There is still room for me to mature and develop into a knowledgeable and wise person as I grow older
in life because I am not perfect.

I thank God for changing my ways helping me to grow up and to have a warm sincere heart sensitive to the needs of people.

But if there ever come a times when I need encouragement this special woman will know how to rekindle the fire to motivate me by being the compass of our future and dream. Because two is better than one when dealing with human instincts, strengths and weaknesses in making decisions.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently enrolled at Grand Rapids community college working to receive certificate and gerontology/associates degree in liberal arts to apply for an bachelors in social worker. I was an intern two semesters at senior neighbors downtown center. I go to church two or three times a month. I am the guardian of my 91-year-old mother which is in a nursing home that I visit regularly four to five times a week.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying out of peoples business, cooking, planning and organizing activities for the senior center but no one working for the organization.
Working with the older generation being conscious of their needs.

A good listener passionate, I am romantic, kind, gentle.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My humor, positive energy, neatness, being polite, and my friendliness and women notice my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ernest J. Gaines A Lesson Before Dying.
George Orwell 1984
Curtis White The Middle Mind
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God in my life, my cell phone, dinner, my family, smooth jazz music, daily hugs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Knowing my purpose, managing to stay humble, and being a good provider for the Lady that God bring in to my life.

Working to have perfect credit to purchase my dream home.

Not selling myself short by compromising and sacrificing my feelings to make someone else happy.

Having a career or my own business

About getting married
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Visit friends or family members go see a movie on the movie and chill at home having a beer or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I pig out on Keebler chocolate chip coconut cookies and Superman ice cream sometime.
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