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baytoday

31 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 20
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Construction
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i'm a dancer, a baker, an architecture maker...a singer, a cook, at the gym with a book (but not in that order and the architect gig is the only professional one).

i stay super busy so efficiency is my m.o. i can be spontaneous but am more prone to keeping a tight calendar so i can do more of the things i love to do without missing a beat. as someone who highly values his connections with others i will always give more time to activities with friends or a special someone ;) on the infrequent occasion i have alone time i will multi-task like a beast in order to reserve more time for company. i am pretty high-energy (but low-maintenance) and ride the natural highs (no substances for me - even coffee).

after a pacific n.w. upbringing and a dozen years on the east coast for school and work, i relocated to the bay last year. although I was hesitant to move here i have fallen in love with this place and met some amazing people. as i continue to explore the city i mostly look forward to expanding my local family of friends because for me, life is only as wonderful as the people you share it with. and hopefully i'll find that special someone in the mix with whom i can build a future. i've found that good company makes even the most simple times magical so i'd sooner enjoy the familiar with a loved one than run around solo, i'd rather stroll hand in hand than frequent a club, i'd rather cook together than go out to eat (unless its ethiopian or indian or another tricky recipe), i prefer even a quick phone chat to any length of texting, and always seek substance over novelty.

seems as though laughter (with a good dose of humility) is the best way to handle life whether amused or confused, sincere or silly, curious or confident...it keeps us grounded and connected to each other. i even smile when i cry (which happens in all movies i love - i'm big softy). and laughter makes the good times great and the bad times less painful so show those pearly whites!

whether your lens reads the above as strengths or weaknesses i can be summed up best in the words of a. burroughs, "i myself am made entirely of flaws stitched together with good intentions."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to find the balance between staying a kid forever and growing up, between following my dreams and being responsible, between giving back and gaining skills...but more specifically i pay bills as an architect while spending my after hours tutoring or making music or in dance class or baking a cake for the next bday or cooking for folks or...always more to do than time to do it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i'm really good at saying what i'm not good at ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
blue eyes and giddy smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: alchemist, little prince, mutant message down under, very awesome book
movies: finding neverland, crash, baby mama,
music: pop, folk, r&b, vocal jazz, classical
food: milk, pb, chocolate, pears
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
fam/friends (although they aren't 'things')
dance
music
chocolate, pb, and milk
flip flops
floss ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the best way to build a life for a family in the future when i'm still trying to execute the notions in the 'what i'm doing with my life' section...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
cooking a big dinner for friends or at the barre...the ballet barre that is ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
seems like the most appropriate spot to mention i'm a top (for any potential LTR).
also, i'm relatively light on body hair but i trim it all anyway.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are the grounded guy next door who is happy more than not, loves to laugh but is able to cry, and can jump from silly conversations to serious ones without avoiding important or difficult ones.
...you value close relationships with family and friends, and think about others more than yourself
...you give at least a bit more to this world than you take from it
...you're confident but not arrogant, honest and sensitive, driven yet patient, and know that success can’t be measured by possessions or a bank account
...you know that a relationship is a result of a process that can't be forced or planned and that change, influence, trust, love, and all other important elements of a relationship come with time, patience, and experience
...you respect both people and planet, and want to learn more than teach

...and most importantly you're humble.

i’m down for new friends but ideally would find that special someone to grow with…to build a present...and if all goes well, to build a future…