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baywater

49 F Santa Barbara, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm simple & light hearted by nature, yet found a greater sense of purpose & clarity that I never had before. I've learned the things that matter most in life & keep realizing that for me, it's the basic, simple things.

I'm fit & energetic. The pictures I posted are neither the best whatsoever, nor the worst that have been taken of me. Just trying to be realistic.
I'm comfortable with most anyone- whether the President of a corporation or a janitor. And tho i easily get along with most people, I tend to be attracted to those who are driven, physically fit to a certain degree, & non-pretentious.
I'm looking forward to dating since it's been a long time of mostly staying on the sidelines. Finally, I am truly ready.

If I don't have pictures posted currently, I will likely send one privately. I've been told I resemble Mary Louise Parker from Weeds.

[And now here's this intense statement that's going around, but maybe its necessary: NOTIFICATION: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Cooking dinners for my two kids every other week, wish it was more... so i love it! Driving, thinking about men too much :P planning my next step in life, daydreaming of where I'm going on my next trip, & hiking the hills & streets of the bay area.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love to ski! Bonus points if you do too!
Asking people questions
Throwing a great party
Inspiring people
Being flexible
Thinking outside the box
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my enthusiasm! ...boing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Love music! Clapton, Springsteen, BB King, Petty... Rock n Roll, Blues, etc. I love going to concerts - small venues esp.
Books: Second Opinion, Horse Whisperer, Coming Home (mostly girl books, except the first one is both.) I read a lot of articles, but admittedly not as many books as I'd like.
Movies: Fugitive, Momma Mia, Titanic
Food: Anything! (almost) Pasta, Sushi, Pizza, Burgers, & CHOCOLATE mmm :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kiddos
Friends
Comfy cozy bed
Chocolate
Exercise
Writing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my two kids... skiing... george clooney & other handsome men... And chucking it all to live on an island...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home cooking dinner for my kid/s. Or going out with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a huge fear of riding on ferris wheels.
I usually like roller coasters tho, so what gives?! :P

And I crank up & sing loudly to silly songs like Sugar & Hooked on a Feeling on the car radio.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you'd rather pursue than be pursued, are a hard worker &/or ambitious & at least game to have fun at times even if you are more serious.
And no matter how much money you have, you aren't pretentious.
Also, If you've been through tough times in your life, that's okay with me. We don't always ask for the situations we found ourselves in.