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54 Westford, MA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 8
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmmm....well, here are some musings.

Near our 25th birthdays, a friend and I decided that "now" was the peak moment of our lives. That belief has stayed with us both and still helps us both consider today our peak.

This responsible optimism leads me to prefer the upward struggle rather than the downward glide. Feelings that stem from within, due to struggle or thought, while connecting, loving, stretching, working, thinking, and learning make me feel most alive.

Some peeves of mine are leaf blowers, using water to "sweep" a sidewalk, and idling cars with idling people inside..and the AC on…just waiting. Ugh.

Reading books, seeing movies and other art, and watching live entertainment, especially those that provoke and absorb, are great ways to make today special. That they can be shared make them even better.

Staying fit helps my mental and physical well-being. Calorie burning may be my primary goal, but the challenges, camararderie, and shower afterwards are good incentives too.

Connecting with others is a constant thought. How to be a better dad, friend, son, or ex-husband is always on my mind. Isn't this what it is all about? For instance, while visiting other places is fun and exciting, isn't whom we are with and the connection between most important? So much so that the place does not matter?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be curious and open to as much as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Finding the upside
- Staying fit
- Foosball
- Recycling
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
… is that I have new glasses … and am in good shape.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Have many favorites...right now am reading Hemingway's "A Farewell to Arms". Saw the movie "Ida" recently….really good stuff. Music-wise….am playing The Black Keys' "Act Nice and Gentle" a lot.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Intimacy
2. Food
3. Drink
4. Music
5. A good book
6. Sweat...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
… women and how to better connect.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
… rowing, reading, cooking, watching live music or a movie, or meeting friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My handwriting....ahhh, is not so good.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
… you have time for a new significant relationship; are honest, open, independent, fit, strong, curious, active, and like to laugh.