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53 M Westford, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 44–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:45pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Today is the prime of life. That's my mantra, how I try to live. Others may say that I am optimistic, energetic, or outgoing.

Some musings…..would rather run, pedal, or hike uphill than tear downhill. Have never fully appreciated lunch; think of it as more a time than a meal. Sometimes I work out just for the shower. There are times when I prefer prior planning. More often, though, I'd rather take a chance and enjoy the unknown. I like open, uninhibited talk.....sharing what makes us feel, think, or dream....and finding the shared or different... twist, humor, understanding...whatever it may be. Especially now, with all that is happening in our lives.

Honesty and openness are very important to me. When these qualities are felt, I believe communication, trust, intimacy ... all of it is so much better.

I have traveled and lived around the US. Been to Europe and Asia and hope to return. Am certain that adventure, excitement, and wonder can be found most anywhere. Harder to find is whom you are with and the connection between.

Practically, I'll share that I am in sales and like what I do. It's the people, the challenges, the lifestyle. I moved around a lot when growing up and lived in CO, MT, and then went to high school in Western MA. Despite all that change, I tend to stay in touch with friends. I have always been close to my parents and have become especially close to my dad in the past 5 years.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying every moment; being true to myself and others; trying to be curious and open to as much as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Finding the upside
- Staying fit
- Foosball
- Recycling
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Many favorite books, recent ones include BUTCHER's CROSSING, MY STRUGGLE - BOOK ONE, FEAR. and ABSALOM, ABSALOM!. Figuring out my next read….any suggestions?
Music-wise, like most, especially when it's live. Most often, I am listening to alternative or The Grateful Dead, particularly Jerry's tunes.
Food - Italian, Thai, Indian, and Moroccan. Black licorice, ginger, cinnamon, curry, molasses, hummus, lemon, pomegranate.....and blueberries.
Shows and movies, not a big TV-watcher. Movie-wise, I like flicks like Blue is the Warmest Color, Amores Perros, Gods and Monsters, Broadway Danny Rose, Boyhood, etc. Also like older movies like The Misfits, Shane, Rear Window, On The Town, A Brief Encounter, and much more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ok, only tangibles; glad to talk about the intangibles, sometime....
1. People
2. Good food
3. Good drink
4. Music
5. A good book
6. An erg
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes it is characters I have read about or seen in a movie. Often it is how I can make difference, how I can be more empathetic. The constants are about those close to me, what can be done, and where to get a good latte.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately, it's been rowing, reading, cooking, watching live music, or meeting friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My handwriting....ahhh, is not so good.
You should message me if
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You have time for another significant relationship; are honest, open, independent, fit, strong, curious, active, and like to laugh.