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bbender2

31 Portland, OR Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:01pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Been in Portland for two years. Love it. Going to stay for awhile. How about you? How does one encapsulate nuances and subtleties in such a limited, word-based space? I like meeting people in person. There's so much more in one glance than words can ever describe.
I'm a voice actor, and passionate about what I do.
I strive to live as happy and healthy as I can, which, I'm realizing, requires a steady and artful balance of all one finds significant.
What's significant for you?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Voice actor.
Podcaster.
Zen practitioner.
Creative writer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ping Pong. Although now that there's ping pong recess time at Pips and Bounce, I'm discovering some incredibly talented players
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My voice. It was an incessant year's worth of people urging me on, that finally got me thinking about voice acting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There are too many books to list, but here are a few top favs:
Trust Me, John Updike
Lord of the Rings
Anything by Vladimir Nabokov
Farenheit 451, Ray Bradbury
The Old Man and the Sea, Hemingway
The Book on the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Really Are, Alan Watts

Music: Phantogram, Simon and Garfunkel, Radiohead, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Shins, Of Monsters and Men, Massive Attack, Black Keys, Blind Pilot, Muse

Movies: Moon, The Pianist, Lost in Translation

Podcasts: This American Life, Radiolab, On Being, Startup, Reply All, Invisibilia.
Food: Thai and most Asian cuisine, though i love many types of food. I'm not too picky.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Family and close friends
-Books
-Pen and paper
-Tent
-Music
-Mountains
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The vastness of nature and the universe, and how humbling it is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sadly, working. Or, if I happen to be so lucky...
Out with friends having lively and insightful conversations over good food and good drinks.

Although staying in sometimes seems more fitting--a good film accompanied by a glass of red wine or a Jubilale.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I warm up on the way to auditions/recording by singing in the car (also good karaoke practice).
You should message me if
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I'm a sucker for wit, honesty, and genuine kindness.