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bboynexus

21 / M / Straight / Single

Melbourne, Australia

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:44pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I have a habit of over-writing things like this, so I've been trying to get to heart of it lately. I despise writing about myself. I always feel as if I come off as self-serving. Maybe I take it too seriously? Haha. I think part of the reason is that I'm still finding out about me. But then, I don't think self-discovery ever ends. It's not like there's an 'end point'. In my experience, people who think they know everything about themselves tend to be complacent. We're so much more complicated than that.

I’m pretty much a Taurus through and through. Take that as you wish. I’m pretty sentimental, empathetic and a romantic at heart. I’ve very open with how I feel about the important people in my life. Sometimes I can get a little sappy, but so far that hasn’t led to any awkward situations. Being emotionally candid is something I take pride in, and it has strengthened all the meaningful relationships in my life. I think people are sometimes taken aback by it because they find it confronting, and so I tend to only closely befriend a small number of people. I don’t respond well to people who put up barriers or facades.

I suppose that's the kind of people I'm attracted to; people who are reflective, who don't try and simplify or categorize everything, and who aim to be completely honest with themselves. If we can't be honest with ourselves by recognizing and appreciating our limitations and shortcomings, how can we be honest with anyone else?

Making new friends can be a long process for me. It’s taken me two years, for example, to warm up to some of the people I’ve met at Uni. I don’t want to sound snobbish, it’s just who I am. Although I wouldn’t call myself shy and quiet, I am cautious because there are people out there who will exploit empathetic people for their own personal gain. Sometimes things can start to feel pretty lonely as a result. You start to wonder if you’re ever going to find people who understand things the way you do. I suppose I can seem conservative or boring to a lot of people who are interested in someone louder and adventurous. I'm totally open to doing new things; I'm just not very spontaneous.

Honestly, I’m quite nerdy (no apologies for that), but I like to think I’m reasonably fashionable and sociable. I like nice clothes and totally enjoy going out with friends regularly (and, on the very rare occasion, getting a little hammered). At the same time, I have a mountain of pop-culture merchandise in my room. Frankly, if that bothers you, there’s probably no point in messaging me.

There are only a few really important people in my life, and I would do anything for them that is within my power. That may or may not be a cliché, but it’s true. I’m always trying to do the best I can for the people I care about – even if it’s just by being there for them and listening to anything they want to say.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a student, currently studying Screenwriting at RMIT University. Just started my third year, and I'm so glad to be back. I love the atmosphere and being surrounded by such a smart and lovely group of people. I'm thinking a lot about what I should do after I graduate. Maybe Journalism or Education, I'm not too sure yet.

I'm constantly looking to travel at the moment. I went overseas on my own for the first time only half a year ago to meet up with overseas friends, and it was the best time of my life. I totally plan on doing it again.

I spend a lot of time doing what most Uni students do; chilling with friends, having a few drinks, playing video games, trying to forge a path in this world. I'm pretty much open to doing anything with friends when I'm not busy.
I’m really good at
I’m passionate about writing. Communication is one of the things I value most. I'm never arrogant about it and I don't expect everyone else to be writers or anything like that, but I hope you at least have an appreciation for the way language builds and shapes our understanding of the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
My voice, apparently. People seem to have a fascination with it. I'm always told how good my voice sounds and how well it carries. *shrugs*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I tend to read a lot of Screenplays these days over novels, given my Uni studies. I'm a hopeless Harry Potter fan. I tend to stick to Science-Fiction, but I occasionally delve into Crime Fiction and Horror. H.P Lovecraft has been a huge influence on me creatively.

I love talking about films. There are few I outright dislike, and I usually find something of value in just about anything I watch. My favorite movies, however, are ones that step away from convention and do something unique, have more profound meaning, and actually get you thinking. Chris Nolan is my favorite director of the day. I'm pretty sure The Lion King is the best (and also most devastating) movie I've ever seen. No shame in admitting that.

My two favorite shows of all time are 'Lost' and '24', the reasons for which are too long to sum up here. I'm also a huge fan of Joss Whedon's work. I grew up watching Star Trek. I love classic-era Simpsons, and I have a soft spot for all the great classics from Cartoon Network. I also watch a tonne of Craig Ferguson.

Music is more important to me than anything else out of these. It always has a way of accentuating my emotional state at any given time. I'm incredibly passionate about Pink Floyd (although my favorite album might surprise you) and Euphoric Trance. I listen to a lot of old-school rock (especially ballads from the 80's). I also have a sizable and growing collection of music scores from a range of shows, films and games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Just about everything, I guess. Philosophy, sociology, psychology, politics. Cosmology blows my mind. Thinking about why things are the way they are.

I'm also a little superstitious, truth be told. I might say I don't take things like Astrology seriously, but honestly, there's something I like a lot about metaphysics in general.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes working, but usually chilling with friends or at home losing myself in a great story (book, movie, video game).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I currently live at home with my parents. I'm not ashamed of it. Being at home gives you the freedom to do a lot more. But I hope to be out on my own by the end of the year. I feel the fire to leave the nest and be more independent and self-sufficient.

I don't have a car. That's more to do with laziness than anything else. I'm looking to change that this year as well. The costs of getting a car and maintaining it is one of the main reasons why I've put it off for so long. Public transport has (for the most part) served me well and it's a lot cheaper.

I'm also a closet singer. Self-trained, six years. I wish I had the courage to do it publicly, but I can't seem to do it yet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–22
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If we share similar interests and/or any of the above information appeals to you. Why else would you be interested? :P

I'm not interested in hook-ups. I'd prefer getting to know you first and becoming friends. I believe that all great relationships start from friendship. I'd love to meet someone who I understand and who understands me. And then whatever happens, happens.

If you happen to send me a message (and I respond), at least do me the courtesy of telling me if you lose interest after a while. I'd rather that than sudden non-responses (which I think happens A LOT on 'dating' sites).

Keelah se'lai (if you get the reference, you're instantly awesome). :P