Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
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1. I AM NOT A COUGAR I DON'T DATE YOUNGER MEN UNLESS YOU'RE A FEW
YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME..I'm not into dating guys that are close to
my kids' age.. that's just gross!
2. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS.. From
personal experience they do not work.
3. I DO MIND TALKING ABOUT SEXUAL THINGS RIGHT OFF THE BAT.. That
does NOT impress me at all. There is more to me than my chest size,
sensitivity and what do I like most about sex and intimacy..
4. I AM NOT WANTING TO START A RELATIONSHIP OUT BY JUMPING INTO BED
WITH SOME ONE, which kinda goes along with number 3...These types
of relationships don't work out either!! If you're looking for just
a booty call... keep on looking else where..
5. I DO NOT date outside my race. It's how I was raised. I know it
works for others and that's GREAT.. but it's not for me. Friends
are fine, but nothing more.
If you got past all the above.. then please keep reading :)
I am a nice easy going person. I believe in family. I believe that
in order for a relationship to work, there must be communication,
trust and for the most part, compatible.
I am an affectionate, caring, loving person. I like cuddling,
holding hands, and kissing. I can cry over the littlest things
(that's cause I"m a cancer baby..we tend to show emotions easily) I
like walks in the park, feeding the ducks, enjoy grilling out,
going out for dinner. I'm a social drinker, I do not smoke, prefer
him not to smoke either. I enjoy a funny joke as much as the next
person, but don't ask me to tell any, cause I don't any..lol.. but
I also know when to be serious as should everyone in a
I want to be able to find someone to get to know and build a good
relationship from there. I want to find my best friend, lover, and
mate. But still give enough room for each of us to be our own
person and do things with other people.
I am not saying this to be mean or cruel.. it's just that these
things are important to me in my life at this time and always will
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What am I doing with my life.. . Still looking for that someone
special to get to know and date and hope to have a new
relationship. Someone not afraid to know and date and love a bbw..
and working and I am expecting a grand daughter late November or
early December. I'm way too excited for her to get here!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I was born in July, and so that makes me a Cancer baby. I totally
fit the description of a Cancer person. We are true and loyal, and
generally put others before ourselves. We are fabulous listeneres
and make excellent friends. (Maybe that's why, according to my kids
and mom, I've never met a stranger lol)
I enjoy cooking, but it really does suck just cooking for one all
the time!! Why can't the grocery store package things for one??
(wishful thinking on my part!!)
I've been told I'm good at giving back rubs and massages and
finding those tension knots in shoulder blades! But you'll have to
let me know if you think I'm good at it LOL..
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a nice smile and pretty eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love romance novels.. as long as the back of the book catches my
eye, it doesn't matter who the author is. I LOVED the 50 Shades of
Movies.. Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, Gone With the Wind,
Armageddon to name a few.. I like mainly comedy/action not too much
into the scary gory movies lol.
Shows..I love the show Castle, NCIS, I'm a big Bachelor and
Bachelorette fan (sorry I know it's reality, but I enjoy it seing
the places they get to go on the trips and hoping that he/she picks
who I liked lol) I like watching HGTV, Food Network, TLC,
Food... Tumbleweed, Pizza (just pepperoni and saugae and maybe
jalapenos on it), I like grilling out, something about the food
just tastes so much better!! (I've been known to grill in the
winter as well lol...does that make me an odd person?? lol)
Music.. Country. Love country music very much. I grew up listening
to the 80's hair bands, and I'll occassionally listen to some of
them, but not too often. I also love the 50's and 60's and I like a
few blues singers. My favorite blues band is Stacey Mitchhart.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not in any particular order but theses are things I can't do
My 3 children/ 2 grandchildren and one on the way so soon to be
Finding that special someone to spend the rest of my life
My cell phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it would be like to find that special someone to date and do
things with. Also what is going to become of the world if all the
fighting and bickering overseas doesn't end. Are we going to have a
nuclear bomb dropped on us anytime in the near future???
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home since it's not fun to go out by yourself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You'll just have to wait and find out.
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