Hi there, I'm Brenda, a 43 yr old fat chik (bbw....voluminous....extraordinary...whichever u prefer) that luvs to meet new friends, i am easy going, laid back, no drama, don't take life too seriously and hard to offend. drinking an ice cold beer in some dive is just as fun as cuddling on the couch watching whatever catches our fancy. sarcastic, biting humor that makes me think (louis c.k., george carlin, eddie izzard, kat williams) is a huge turn on. being an atheist/humanist/freethinker, i appreciate people who are left of center with a huge sense of humor.

bettering myself one day at a time...very much a work in progress, working, enjoying living by myself, meeting new friends

- making people feel comfortable
- karaoke

My smile
my curly hair

books: non fiction mostly (anything by hitchens, dawkins, harris) but occasionally take a romp in paranormal romance
music: 80's hairbands, country, heavy metal, hip/hop and rap
shows: documentaries on just about any subject, walking dead, grimm, american horror story, breaking bad, south park, true csi stuff
food: burgers and beer, seafood, steak, italian

music, books, humor, air, food, physical affection

- how to be a better human
- continuing to educate myself

relaxing after work with a glass of moscato wine
hanging out with friends at karaoke
cuddled on couch watching on demand

kinda still scared of the dark........

- you find me intriguing
- you truly enjoy the company of cool women :)