Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi there, I'm Brenda, a fat chik
(bbw....voluminous....extraordinary...whichever u prefer) that luvs
to meet new friends, i am easy going, laid back, very little drama,
don't take life too seriously and hard to offend. drinking an ice
cold beer in some dive is just as fun as cuddling on the couch
watching whatever catches our fancy. sarcastic, biting humor that
makes me think (louis c.k., george carlin, eddie izzard ) is a huge
turn on. being an atheist/humanist/freethinker, i appreciate people
who are left of center with a huge sense of humor. This would be
where I wax philosophic on the virtues of balance and self
awareness; of the silly paradoxes of being human, vulnerable vs.
unflappable, playful vs. responsible…you know…all that. Perhaps
there’s more to it though… moments unfold and each of us gets to
choose who we want to be… I am easy going but not a pushover by any
means. I am not demanding, however, I do know what I want and
understand that communication and compromise are a part of being in
a healthy relationship. I also value honesty and trust. Those two
elements are critical in establishing a long lasting relationship.
I am willing to take chances and meet new people. I have a serious
desire to find the right person to meet, grow to know, and
hopefully start an amazing life together with. I'm a work in
progress, but I've already accomplished a lot. I don’t have it all
figured out, and I'm not done working on myself, but I know myself
pretty well. I find it easy to relate to people, so I'm not very
set on my panthers background. I can be bossy at times but I prefer
sharing responsibility with my partner. I prefer that they are
decent and caring "good" people. They don't need to be
philanthropic, but they should know that giving is its own gift.
They should be open minded on many subjects, but still be true to,
and know, themselves. I prefer having intimacy with my partner on
many levels. Having personal space once in a while is an important
part of life, but I always like to cuddle, and I'm not afraid of
PDA. I am happy with who I am, so I have no need to put on an act
in an attempt to impress others.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
bettering myself one day at a time...very much a work in progress,
working, enjoying living by myself, meeting new friends
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- making people feel comfortable
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: non fiction mostly (anything by hitchens, dawkins, harris)
but occasionally take a romp in paranormal romance
music: 80's hairbands, country, heavy metal, hip/hop and rap
shows: documentaries on just about any subject, walking dead,
grimm, american horror story, breaking bad, south park, true csi
stuff, dexter, vikings, bates motel, the killing, the shield,
justified, last week tonight with john oliver, game of thrones,
sopranos, daily show, house of cards
food: burgers and beer, seafood, steak, italian
movies: not much of a movie watcher..point break, rise of the
planet of the apes, dawn of the planet of the apes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, books, humor, air, food, physical affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- how to be a better human
- continuing to educate myself
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing after work with an ice cold beer
hanging out with friends at karaoke
cuddled on couch watching on demand
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
kinda still scared of the dark........
You should message me if
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- you find me intriguing
- you truly enjoy the company of cool women :)
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