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45 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:53pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
When drinking
Atheism, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi there, I'm Brenda, a 43 yr old fat chik (bbw....voluminous....extraordinary...whichever u prefer) that luvs to meet new friends, i am easy going, laid back, very little drama, don't take life too seriously and hard to offend. drinking an ice cold beer in some dive is just as fun as cuddling on the couch watching whatever catches our fancy. sarcastic, biting humor that makes me think (louis c.k., george carlin, eddie izzard, kat williams) is a huge turn on. being an atheist/humanist/freethinker, i appreciate people who are left of center with a huge sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
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bettering myself one day at a time...very much a work in progress, working, enjoying living by myself, meeting new friends
I’m really good at
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- making people feel comfortable
- karaoke
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile
my curly hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: non fiction mostly (anything by hitchens, dawkins, harris) but occasionally take a romp in paranormal romance
music: 80's hairbands, country, heavy metal, hip/hop and rap
shows: documentaries on just about any subject, walking dead, grimm, american horror story, breaking bad, south park, true csi stuff, dexter, vikings, bates motel, the killing, the shield, justified
food: burgers and beer, seafood, steak, italian
movies: not much of a movie watcher..point break, rise of the planet of the apes, dawn of the planet of the apes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, books, humor, air, food, physical affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- how to be a better human
- continuing to educate myself
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing after work with a glass of moscato wine
hanging out with friends at karaoke
cuddled on couch watching on demand
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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kinda still scared of the dark........
You should message me if
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- you find me intriguing
- you truly enjoy the company of cool women :)